How to Choose The Right Lube for You and Your Partner

How to Choose The Right Lube for You and Your Partner


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It’s safe to say that we’re totally obsessed with lube.

Not only does lube make sex feel amazing - period, it also makes sex with condoms safer and more pleasurable by reducing unwanted friction. Not to mention, experimenting with lube is a lot of fun!

When it comes to maximizing your pleasure, finding the perfect lube can be a complete game-changer. But, like condoms, not all lubes are one size fits all.

We all have our individual preferences, which can make choosing the right lube a confusing experience.

Not sure which lube is right for you and/or your partner? Here are a few questions to ask yourself.

Are you planning on using the lube vaginally?

From water-based to silicone, there are lots of vaginal lube options to choose from. However, if you or your partner is prone to yeast infections, look for a glycerine-free option.

Sliquid Naturals Satin Vaginal Moisturizer is a great place to start - especially if you’ve found previous lubes you’ve tried just “meh.”

Sliquid Satin Personal Moisturizer & Lubricant

Sliquid Satin Personal Moisturizer & Lubricant

$8.99 $12.99

Satin Lubricant by Sliquid Sliquid Naturals Satin Lubricant is an aloe vera and carrageenan-infused long-lasting, water-based daily use lubricant. Use during sex or as needed to alleviate dryness from menopause, medication, or any other reason. Safe to use daily. Sugar-free… Read More

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Sliquid Naturals Satin is an aloe vera and Carrageenan-infused water-based lube for daily use, with added plant cellulose to make it extra long-lasting.

It’s also hypoallergenic, fragrance-free, sugar-free (glycerin and glycol), paraben-free, ph neutral, and uniquely blended to emulate your body's own natural lubrication.

Are you or your partner sensitive?

If yes, you’re in luck - there are lots of options when it comes to sensitive lube. The key is to find products that are free of fragrances, sugars, glycerine, and parabens.

Pjur's Woman Nude is another water-based lubricant with no additives- perfect for lovers who like a lube to be as naked and natural as their own bodies.

No odor, perfume, or taste means no distractions, so you can fully lose yourself in the experience. Sliquid H2O is also an excellent option for people with sensitive parts.

Pjur Woman Nude Water-Based Lubricant | 100ml (3.4oz)

Pjur Woman Nude Water-Based Lubricant | 100ml (3.4oz)

$18.99 $22.99

Pjur Woman NUDE Personal Lubricant In the world of fashion and cosmetics, “nude” goes hand-in-hand with “natural” and “pure.” Naturally, Pjur Woman Nude contains no glycerin, paraben, oil, fat, perfume, or preservatives!   Developed especially for many women's more sensitive… Read More

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Are you planning on having anal sex?

The anus doesn’t naturally lubricate itself, so lube is an absolute must for pleasure and safety. Look for lubes made with silicone or have a long-lasting silicone-like feel.

One of our favorites is Pjur Original Bodyglide - a long-lasting silicone lube that’s compatible with latex, polyurethane, and polyisoprene condoms and can also be used for skin conditioning and massage.

Pjur Woman BodyGlide Silicone Lubricant

Pjur Woman BodyGlide Silicone Lubricant

$23.99 $26.99

Pjur Woman Silicone Lubricant Women need quality lubricants that are formulated for intimate contact, and Pjur's Woman series was developed to be gentle and safe. Pjur Woman BodyGlide is a wonderfully slick silicone lube, and it doesn't contain any unsafe… Read More

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Not into silicone?

Boy Butter Clear with Invisigel is our highly concentrated silicone-alternative formula, 100% water-based, non-staining, hypoallergenic, latex & vaginally safe.

It looks, feels, and acts exactly like silicone personal lubricants but washes off with water alone from skin and fabric; it is a miracle how easy the clean-up is.

What about oral sex?

Licking something flavorful can definitely turn up the heat on oral sex! The flavored lube options abound, from Swiss Navy Cherry Flavored to Sliquid Naturals Swirl Green Apple Lubricant.

If your partner is ultra-sensitive, make sure you choose an option free of potential irritants like sugar and glycerine.

Playing solo?

A great lube can take your next masturbation session to the next level.

Our suggestions? Lube up with something rich and creamy like Boy Butter Original, an organic coconut-oil based cream form lubricant that outlasts silicone-based products while washing off with water alone (just make sure that if you decide to use it with condoms that you use non-latex condoms only) orSliquid 'Sizzle' Warming Lubricant that offers a gentle warming sensation with your touch.

Now that you have all the right info go forth and enjoy slippery, pleasure-enhanced, safer sex!

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