Blow away his expectations
When it comes to turning a man on, most would agree that nothing makes a dude feel more excited or dominant than receiving a sexy blowjob.
Whether you’re already a pro or looking for a few pointers, we’ve rounded up the key elements that make this ‘job’ feel like anything but work!
Assume the Position
There’s no shortage of possible positions when it comes to giving a great head, but keep in mind that you will likely remain in that stance for about 5-10 minutes, so you’re going to want to be comfortable.
For a saucy twist on a regular kneel, give him your out-of-this-world blowjob in front of a mirror.
While he stands, kneel in front of him, with your sides facing the mirror; allowing him to watch you (and you to watch too) while you suck him off adds a whole other level of voyeuristic pleasure to the experience for you; both!
Find your Rhythm
A little teasing is ok, but most guys want you to get down to business right away.
Work your mouth up and down his penis a few times, keeping your tongue broad and flat with good pressure against the underside of his cock.
Wrap your lips around his shaft and maintain a tight seal without making any contact with your teeth.
Work with your Hands
Many women’s mouths aren’t big enough to accommodate their man’s full penis, but incorporating your hands into the mix to stimulate the shaft and balls is a great way to give pleasure all over.
Remember, the shaft tends to be the least sensitive part of the penis, so use more pressure than you think. Work with your dominant hand to stimulate the shaft while your secondary hand is free to wander.
Take Things to the Next Level with Toys
Sex toys aren’t just for ladies. There are loads of sex toys designed to take men’s pleasure to new levels—from masturbators to vibrators to anal toys. Using these toys on your man during a blowjob will guarantee an experience he’ll never forget. He’ll be putty in your hands…or in your mouth—whichever you prefer.
Sex toys add variation and sensation that your mouth and hands can’t replicate. Plus, alternating from sucking to stroking with a toy can give you a chance to catch your breath.
Here are some of the best sex toys for making blowjobs even better.
The Best Blowjob Enhancer: Fun Factory Manta Stroker
Fun Factory Manta is a vibrating male stroker. To use it, just place his D through the hole and move the toy up and down his shaft. Basically, it replaces the work that your hand would do during the blowjob and adds vibrating goodness to the experience.
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$139.99
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The Manta is our top pick because it's really easy to handle even if your mouth is busy. You can adjust the speed settings as you go, starting slow and then amping up the power for a big finish. He won’t last long….
This toy is rechargeable, waterproof, and lube-friendly. Plus, it doesn’t have any enclosed spaces, so it’s really easy to clean.
The Best Masturbator: VeDO Hummer Vibrating Masturbation Sleeve
If you find it hard to breathe or get a big gaggy during the act, a masturbation sleeve will take the pressure off of your mouth without letting up on the intensity for him.
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A masturbator is a soft silicone sleeve that fits over your man’s wood. Its tight fit and textured interior replicate the sensation of a real mouth, vagina, or butt. In this case, we recommend the VeDO Hummer Vibrating Masturbation Sleeve because it imitates the blowjob experience perfectly and adds powerful vibrations.
When your mouth gets tired, just slip the sleeve onto your guy and start pumping handjob-style. Just before he loses control completely, take it off and tease him with your tongue again.
The Best Hands-Free Sex Toy: Tammy Vibrating Ring
You only have two hands. If both are already busy, you can still add some extra sensation with the Tammy Vibrating Ring. This ring will send glorious vibrations through his shaft and balls, adding a warm, fuzzy sensation to the base of his penis while you work the tip with your mouth.
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$59.99
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The cock ring will also make him harder and lead to a more intense finish. His knees will buckle, so get ready for him to collapse into a catatonic state.
The Tammy Ring isn’t just for his pleasure. You’ll love this ring during sex too. The vibrating textured pad fits nicely over your clit during cowgirl and doggy positions, doubling your pleasure while keeping him harder than ever.
The Best for Anal Play: Chrystalino Pin Small Glass Butt Plug
If he likes a finger up his holiest of holies during a blowjob, you can keep things clean and boost his pleasure by using a butt plug. The Chrystalino Pin Glass Butt Plug is the perfect size for a little anal stimulation during a BJ—about the size of a finger.
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$35.90
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You can go deep or tease the anal opening with precision. The cool glass is easy to keep clean and it stays slick with just a bit of lube. You can also stick it in and leave it thanks to the flared base.
The Best Condom for New Partners: ONE Flavor Waves Condoms
So, you’re with a new partner and you want to get kinky…but you’re not sure you want to give a bareback blowjob. ONE Flavor Waves condoms are a great way to protect yourself while keeping the mood light and fun.
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Flavor Waves come in a bunch of delicious flavors (yes, they actually taste good!) like bubble gum, island punch, mint chocolate, and banana split. You get 6 different flavors per box, so you’ll never get bored.
Using condoms for blowjobs is a smart way to prevent STI transmission with new partners. And, you never know what a new partner will taste or smell like down there. If anything, ONE’s condoms are a cure for a funky sack.
The wetter, the better
The wetter, the better when it comes to a good blowjob. Don’t ever worry about having too much saliva; let it slowly fall out of your mouth as you work your way up and down his dick.
If you are having difficulty producing enough saliva to keep things really wet, consider incorporating a flavored lube that you both can enjoy.
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$16.99
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Your Basic Move
Once you’ve gotten him lubed up, use your hand and mouth together by bringing your lips down to meet your hand and keeping your mouth and fist glued together as you move up and down his penis.
This will be the basic move that you can return to at any point throughout the blowjob.
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Tantalize him with Variations
Most men enjoy variety during a blowjob, so to switch things up, try varying your basic move with some of the following techniques: Make your tongue pointy and lick up and down or side to side.
Hold the base of his penis in your hand while you move your lips back and forth over the ridge between the head of his penis and the shaft. You’ll only need to move about an inch.
Spend a little time focusing on his frenulum, which is the seam on the underside of his penis.
For many men, this is the most sensitive area. Try sucking directly on the frenulum itself.
Do the basic stroke with your hand and mouth, but turn your wrist back and forth as you move up and down.
When you need a break, you can rub his dick over your lips, face, or breasts.
Don’t forget his sidekicks.
Now you’re in the swing of things, but don’t forget the balls!
Using your hands and your mouth, gently take his entire scrotum into your non-dominant hand, rolling his balls around while you continue to suck him off.
You can also try licking between the balls and going from back to front with a broad flat tongue.
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If your man is comfortable (and we do suggest asking first), work in a little butt action, too, especially if you’re looking to move things along.
With a finger in the asshole, the remaining fingers massaging his balls, and your other hand on his dick while you suck – you will get him to blow his load in no time.
To Spit or Swallow
From a guy’s perspective, part of feeling connected to a woman sees her swallow when he finishes.
However, if you’re genuinely uncomfortable with swallowing, stash a box of tissues beside the bed and discretely spit into them when he finishes.
Enthusiasm is Everything
Have you ever had a guy go down on you when he seemed hesitant or like he wasn’t enjoying it? Did you enjoy it? No!
Now think of a time you had a guy relish you with enthusiasm, tell you how wonderful you looked and tasted and how much he enjoyed pleasuring you.
Enthusiasm seriously makes the act hotter, and it goes both ways, so suck that cock with gusto, and you will have him moaning before you know it.
Bonus, once you find yourself loving the experience of ruling your man’s pleasure almost as much as he’s enjoying it– you’ll know you’ve truly become a master of A+ blowjob master! Congrats.