Can you use sex toys when you’re pregnant? Yes! Sex toys are safe for you and your baby throughout your pregnancy.
Plus, having sex and using sex toys can be even more fun when you're pregnant.
Pregnant bodies undergo changes that can spike your sex drive and make all of your erogenous areas more sensitive.
Having a sex toy nearby is a great way to satisfy those sudden sexy urges while exploring your changing body.
However, not all sex toys are right for your pregnancy. Some may be too intense or cause painful issues like hemorrhoids. Others are just uncomfortable to maneuver around your baby bump.
We’ve put together a list of pregnancy-approved sex toys that expecting moms love. All of these toys are comfortable and safe to use during pregnancy, and you can continue using them long after delivery.
Note: The advice and suggestions in this article are intended for women with low-risk pregnancies. If your pregnancy has an elevated risk of complications, talk to your OB-GYN before engaging in sexual activity.
The Top 10 Sex Toys to Use During Pregnancy
Below, you’ll find our picks for the best sex toys to use during pregnancy. The toys in the table were chosen by those of us on the Condomania staff who have been pregnant.
We also consulted friends and online reviews to bring you a comprehensive selection of the safest and most pleasurable sex toys for hot mamas.
For more info, continue reading after the table. I’ll break down each toy in detail to explain the pros, cons, and types of sensations you can expect from each toy.
Sex Toy | Type | Why it’s Great for Pregnancy |
Wand Vibrator | Wonderfully rumbly and super comfortable. This full-size wand makes it easy to reach all your hot spots without turning yourself into a pretzel. | |
Bullet Vibrator | Ergonomic and easy to use on any part of your body, this bullet gives you maximum control over the intensity of its vibrations at a time when you may feel extra sensitive. | |
Air Suction Vibrator | Powerful, affordable, and easy on your body. This clit vibrator uses nothing but air to deliver huge climaxes. | |
Wearable Vibrator Remote controlled | Wear this shallow vibrator for hands-free fun. It stays put in any position. You can even wear it under your clothes! | |
Egg vibrator Wearable Remote controlled | This wearable vibrator is easy to insert and remove. No matter how big your bump becomes, all you have to do is lie back and enjoy. | |
Suction cup dildo | Stick this dildo to the wall or floor for easy, hands-free fun. The smaller size is extra comfy and prevents you from going too deep. | |
Rabbit vibrator Dual stimulation (clit + G-spot) Bluetooth/app-controlled | This app-controlled rabbit can satisfy your need for dual stimulation even as your belly grows. | |
Wand Vibrator | This ergonomic wand was designed to accommodate your curves and target your pleasure zones. | |
G-spot Vibrator | Massage your G-spot with three different kinds of vibrations—buzzy, rumbly, or mixed. Alter your vibrations for your changing sensitivities. | |
Wearable Vibrator Bluetooth/app-controlled | Enjoy hands-free dual stimulation in your least flexible moments. Control this toy with an app, and design your own vibration patterns. |
Breakdown: Top Pregnancy Sex Toys
Let’s take a closer look at each of the pregnancy sex toys on the list.
Magic Wand Rechargeable HV-270 Personal Massager
$129.95
$189.95
Magic Wand Rechargeable Vibrator Say hello to the Magic Wand Rechargeable Vibrator, your new best friend in the bedroom! 🎉🔥 For over 30 years, this powerhouse has been delivering mind-blowing, toe-curling vibrations that will leave you breathless. And now, with… Read More
The Magic Wand Rechargeable isn’t just one of the best sex toys of all time—it’s also amazing for pregnancy fun.
The Magic Wand is a wand-style vibrator. It features a cushy, bulbous head on the end of a long baton-like wand.
The head rests on your clit (or anywhere else you want to feel vibrations) as the internal motor unleashes intense, rumbly vibrations.
This is my go-to choice for a pregnancy sex toy. Even though it’s a bit big and clunky, it’s really versatile. Thanks to its length, it’s easy to reach your vulva even as your baby bump balloons.
You can also set it against your clit and let it do its thing as you lie back and relax.
Thanks to its size, you can use the Magic Wand in many positions, including on your side, on your knees, or in the doggy position.
This is really helpful for women who are uncomfortable lying on their backs later in pregnancy.
Wand massagers are also fun to use during sex with a partner, so you’re guaranteed to get a lot of mileage out of this toy.
The only downside of the Magic Wand is that it’s not very discreet, so you can’t really travel with it. However, you can always invest in a Magic Wand Mini for your travel bag!
We-Vibe Touch X Aqua Velvet Bullet Vibrator
$99.00
We-Vibe Touch X Vibrator Touch X is one of the worlds most versatile multi-purpose vibrators. From blissful clitoral stimulation to deep, rumbly head-to-toe massages, Touch X pampers the whole body. Its shape is perfectly sculpted to sensually stimulate all erogenous… Read More
The We-Vibe Touch is an ergonomic take on a classic bullet vibrator. Bullet vibrators deliver targeted buzzy vibrations. This is unlike wands, which have deeper, rumbly, and penetrating vibes.
If you enjoy clit stimulation, a bullet like this one is the perfect starter pregnancy toy.
The We-Vibe Touch is a premium bullet that fits easily in the palm of your hand. Its ergonomic curves help you easily explore sensitive areas all over your body.
Thanks to its non-bullet shape, you can also use it on penises for couples fun.
Speaking of couples, when you’re having a stressful day, you can ask your partner to use the We-Vibe Touch to give you a full body massage. It’s got plenty of settings to work your muscles from head to toe.
This isn’t just a sex toy—it’s a full-body stress melter.
Satisfyer Pro 2 Air Pulse Clitoral Stimulator
$49.99
$59.95
Satisfyer Pro 2 Air Pulse Stimulator You know you want it. The Satisfyer Pro 2 is a new style of clitoral stimulator. We call it "air suction" because it doesn't actually touch the clitoris! Stimulates the clitoris using intense pressure… Read More
The Satisfyer Pro 2 is one of the most famous sex toys ever made. It’s among the most universally loved toys by vulva-havers, pregnant or not.
This toy is a type of clit stimulator called an air-suction vibrator. Instead of delivering direct-contact vibrations, the Satisfyer Pro 2 surrounds your clit with air pulses, simulating the feel of suction.
This toy is intense—and it delivers massive climaxes. But at the same time, it’s gentle on your body. Nothing but air touches your clit, which is nice if you’re feeling sensitive down there.
The design is also perfect for pregnant bodies. It’s shaped like a handle with a large opening on the end for your clit.
It’s easy to position while lying on your back, on your side, sitting, or standing in the shower.
I recommend air-suction vibrators to pregnant women who have trouble climaxing, as this toy usually solves the problem with flying colors.
Femme Funn Ossia Wearable Bullet Vibrator - Dark Green
$87.99
$104.99
Discover the Femme Funn Ossia Wearable Bullet Vibrator Meet the Femme Funn Ossia Wearable Bullet Vibrator, your new best friend for discreet and powerful pleasure. Designed for ultimate comfort and packed with features, this revolutionary remote-controlled bullet vibrator is a… Read More
The Femme Fun Ossia is a new vibrator that’s making waves, and it’s especially well-suited for pregnant women.
This wearable toy features a bullet-sized vibrator with a T-shaped base. You insert the vibrating end into your vagina and let it go, hands-free. You control the toy with a remote.
You can enjoy this vibrator in any position or standing. You can even put your clothes back on and enjoy it while lounging on the sofa or working at your desk.
It’s a great option if you already have little ones running around and you don’t have the luxury to spend 20 minutes naked and alone with a vibrator.
I also love that the insertable length is quite shallow. This keeps the vibrations focused on your G-spot and prevents discomfort that can occur deeper in the vagina or near the cervix.
However, if you enjoy deeper vibrations or a girthier vibrator, the Ossia may not be for you. In this case, I’d recommend a rabbit vibrator instead (see the Lovense Nora below).
VeDO Kiwi Bullet - Turquoise
$60.99
$69.99
VeDO Kiwi Bullet Kiwi Rechargeable Insertable Bullet Vibe boasts 10 vibration modes and 6 intensity levels and is designed to discreetly pleasure you anywhere, anytime. Made of silky, smooth silicone, this vibe comes with a sleek remote control with 3… Read More
The VeDO Kiwi Bullet is another wearable vibrator (you’ll notice there are many remote-controlled and wearable sex toys on this list—it’s because they’re so convenient for masturbation later in pregnancy!).
The Kiwi is adorable, discreet, affordable, and powerful. What’s not to love?
This egg-style vibrator inserts fully into the vagina. It is attached to a loop that remains outside the vulva, which you can use to pull the vibrator out.
Once you’ve inserted the toy, use the remote control to adjust the vibrations.
Much like the Femme Fun Ossia, you can use the Kiwi Bullet in any position, and you don’t need to worry about reaching or straining your wrists.
This vibrator is used for G-spot stimulation. If you’re a clit girl, you might want to opt for the We-Vibe Touch above. Or, see the Lovense Dolce later in this article for a hands-free clit vibrator.
DilDolls "Utopia" Silicone Dildo with Suction Base
$44.99
"Utopia" Suction Cup Dildo Bring fantasy to life with Utopia's magical fairyland colored liquid silicone with a silky touch and an ergonomically curved design that provides comfortable insertion. One of the most stylish of silicone dils, DilDolls by Love to… Read More
The DilDolls Utopia Silicone Dildo is the only non-vibrating toy on this list. Vibrators are great pregnancy sex toys, but some people are just too sensitive during pregnancy to comfortably use one.
A suction cup dildo like this one is a fantastic alternative. Suction cup toys are ideal because you can use them in multiple positions. Just stick it to a wall, the floor, or the shower and ease it in.
It’s a modestly-sized toy at about 5.5 inches of insertable length. As a suction cup toy, it’s better to avoid super long dildos that can potentially jam deep into your vagina.
This toy’s length is perfect. If you’re using it against a wall or on the floor, you’ll be fine even if you thrust a bit too hard or end up bouncing on it due to your belly.
It’s also made of 100% silicone, which is safe for pregnant bodies.
Lovense Nora Bluetooth-Controlled Rabbit Vibrator
$119.00
Introducing Nora: Your New Pleasure Pal! Meet Nora, your new best friend in Pleasure Town! 🎉 Smart and Sexy: Bluetooth Bliss This ain't your grandma's vibrator – this baby's got brains and beauty. With Bluetooth smarts, you can control Nora… Read More
The Lovense Nora is a rabbit vibrator, meaning it has two vibrating arms with two separate motors. One arm penetrates the vagina and stimulates the G-spot. The other smaller arm rests on the clit.
Rabbits deliver dual stimulation, which can trigger body-shaking blended clit + G-spot orgasms. These orgasms are ultra-strong, and they’re also fantastic stress relievers during pregnancy.
The Lovense Nora is a versatile rabbit that you can use the classic way—with hands and button controls—or hands-free with Bluetooth controls.
You’ll probably progress from the former to the latter as your pregnancy proceeds.
You can also use the Lovense app to design your own vibration patterns, which is convenient for when your body becomes extra picky about what kind of stimulation it likes.
Another perk of Lovense toys is that you never have to use them alone. Whether your partner is at work or across the country, you can give them control of your toy via the Lovense app whenever you’re feeling frisky!
Dame Com Wand Massager - Periwinkle
$119.00
Dame Com Wand Massager Com by Dame is a body-friendly take on the classic wand shape, upgraded for comfort. Great as a first wand or for more experienced players craving intense external clitoral stimulation, Com's curved handle makes it easy… Read More
I had to put another wand massager on this list because I believe they are the best type of pregnancy sex toys.
The Dame Com is another top-rated wand, and it’s especially convenient for those with growing baby bumps.
Unlike other wand massagers, this one has a curved design, making it much easier to reach and apply pressure to your clit.
It’s the most comfortable wand I’ve ever used, and it’s practically made for circumventing pregnant bellies.
Unfortunately, the Dame Com’s battery life (about 1 hour) is not as good as the Magic Wand’s (about 3 hours). However, it’s also much lighter and more compact than its clunkier counterpart.
If you’re looking for a wand with maximum flexibility and ease of use, you should choose the Dame Com.
Hot Octopuss Kurve - G-Spot Vibrator
$99.00
The mystery of the G-spot is solved! KURVE features Hot Octopuss patented dual-motor Treble and Bass technology, offering the ultimate in user customization. Boasting a soft gel tip that provides a broad surface area and ergonomic contours that ensure the right kind… Read More
The Hot Octopuss Kurve may seem like a classic, single-arm vibrator. But there’s a lot more going on here than meets the eye.
The Kurve has two motors in a single arm. One delivers buzzy vibrations (similar to a bullet), and the other creates deeper, rumbly vibes (similar to a wand).
You can choose which type of vibration you prefer or experience both at once!
I love having the option to enjoy targeted buzzy vibes on my clit or to massage my vulva with deeper, penetrating vibrations.
When you’re pregnant, your preferences can change fast, so it’s nice to have such a versatile vibrator.
The Kurve is built for G-spot stimulation, so you’ll notice it has a slightly larger head for G-spot massage. But you can also use this toy for clit stimulation or to massage any other pleasure zones.
Lovense Dolce G-Spot and Clitoral Stimulator
$129.00
Introducing the Lovense Dolce G-Spot and Clitoral Stimulator Prepare to be blown away by the Lovense Dolce G-Spot and Clitoral Stimulator – the ultimate pleasure powerhouse! 🌟 With its innovative design and customizable features, this vibrator is about to revolutionize… Read More
The Lovense Dolce is a wearable dual-stimulation toy. It works a bit like a paper clip—you slide one arm of the horseshoe-shaped vibrator into your vagina, and the other arm rests on your clit.
Once it’s inside, it stays put. You can use the Lovense app on your phone to control the vibrations to your clit and G-spot.
This sex toy is a godsend for pregnant ladies who love rabbit vibrators. Later in pregnancy, it can be tough to use your rabbit with a belly in the way. But the Dolce does all the work for you, hands-free.
Unlike a rabbit, you can use the Dolce in any position, and you can hand over the controls to your partner for some frisky foreplay that’s safe to engage in late into pregnancy.
I enjoy dual stimulation, so if I had to choose one wearable vibrator to use during pregnancy, it would be the Lovense Dolce.
What About Anal Toys?
Why aren’t there any anal toys on the list above? Can’t moms-to-be enjoy a little bum fun?
Of course! Anal toys, such as butt plugs and anal beads, are safe to use during pregnancy. In fact, many women prefer anal play during pregnancy.
But there’s a reason I didn’t put any anal toys on this list.
Pregnant women are more susceptible to hemorrhoids, and using anal sex toys can increase the chances of this uncomfortable condition.
Hemorrhoids are no fun, and they can lead to serious discomfort later in pregnancy and during childbirth.
So, I recommend sticking to vaginal stimulation during pregnancy.
If you love anal play, use small toys with minimal flaring. Here are a few that I recommend:
Gläs 3.5" Glass Butt Plug
$22.99
$25.99
Gläs Butt Plug This basic butt plug style from the Gläs line features a satisfying 3.5 inches size. Like other styles in the Gläs line, this butt plug can be heated or chilled to deliver sensations like no other material!… Read More
Femme Funn PLUA Vibrating Remote Control Butt Plug - Fuchsia
$89.99
$104.99
Femme Funn PLUA Vibrating Remote Control Butt Plug Feel the fireworks. Plua ignites your spark with 10 whisper-quiet vibration modes. The fully waterproof design includes a remote for hands-free fun and a smart memory for an equally exciting encore. USB… Read More
Luxe Wearable Vibra Slim Butt Plug - Small Size
$19.99
$25.99
Small Size Slim Butt Plug The Luxe Wearable Vibra Slim Plug is a sleek anal plug with a uniquely stimulating design. Even the slightest movement of your body will yield silent vibrations. No batteries or recharging is required! The inner… Read More
They-Ology 5-Piece Wearable Anal Training Set
$84.99
$90.99
Introducing the They-Ology™ 5-Piece Wearable Anal Training Set Dive into the thrilling world of anal stimulation with our They-Ology™ 5-Piece Wearable Anal Training Set—a game-changer for those ready to explore new realms of pleasure! 🌟 Gradual Training for Ultimate Pleasure… Read More
Sex Toys and Pregnancy: What You Need to Know
You probably have a few questions about using sex toys during pregnancy. Is it safe? Does the baby…y’know…know?
It’s safe to use sex toys during pregnancy. Your baby isn’t anywhere near the place where sex happens.
Your bundle of joy is safely bundled away and protected by your uterine muscles, the amniotic sac, and the cervix.
You also won’t bother your baby by having a few orgasms (per day) while pregnant. If anything, babies likely enjoy the rhythmic swaying that occurs during sex and masturbation.
While sex and masturbation during pregnancy are safe and natural, you still need to take precautions.
You need to use sex toys the right way and listen to your body while using them. If anything doesn’t feel right, then it’s time to stop and consult with your OB-GYN before engaging in that sexual activity again.
The following tips will help keep you and your baby safe as you enjoy sex during pregnancy.
👉 A Clean Toy is a Safe Toy: Dirty sex toys can cause infections that could harm you or your baby. Cleaning your toys immediately after using them is extremely important. It’s also critical to store them in a cool, dry place where bacteria are unlikely to grow (such as a sock drawer). Luckily, sex toys are easy to maintain. Wash them with warm water and anti-bacterial soap and let them dry completely before putting them away. Or, use a sex toy cleaner for even simpler cleanup.
👉 Love Lube: Some women experience dryness issues when pregnant. Sex lube can help make sex and masturbation smoother and more pleasurable. Just make sure to use a water-based lube without any additives like glycerine, parabens, and petroleum. Also, never use silicone lube with silicone toys (FYI: all of the toys on the list above are made from silicone!). I recommend sticking with a pure, water-based lube like Sliquid H2O.
👉 Don’t Switch Holes: Switching from anal play to vaginal stimulation with the same toy is a good way to get an infection. Bacteria from your butt is not meant to be inside your vagina, and it can cause problems for your pregnancy. If you want to use your toy for anal and vaginal play, put a condom on it or wash it before switching from back to front.
👉 Don’t Share Toys: Hypothetically, sharing sex toys with a partner should be fine during pregnancy as long as both partners wash them well after use. However, I wouldn’t trust the health of my pregnancy to someone else’s hygiene habits. It’s safer to be selfish with your sex toys while pregnant.
👉 Avoid Harmful Materials: Only buy sex toys made from 100% body-safe silicone. Unfortunately, many sex toys are made of potentially harmful materials, such as PVC, vinyl, and rubber. These materials are more likely to become infected with mold or bacteria, which could make you sick. This is also a reason to avoid buying toys from unreliable Amazon sellers and online auctions. Stick with retailers you can trust like Condomania.
Are There Any Risks of Using a Sex Toy When Pregnant?
There is very little risk associated with using sex toys while pregnant. In fact, studies suggest that it has quite a few benefits, such as reducing stress and lowering blood pressure.
As long as you play it safe, you are free to use sex toys and enjoy sex during your pregnancy.
To play it safe, follow these steps:
Talk to your OB-GYN to ensure your pregnancy is low-risk. Make sure to mention that you’d like to use sex toys. You don’t have to be shy! They talk about this stuff daily.
Follow the tips in the section above. Sex toys are safe to use during pregnancy only when you use them correctly. That means keeping them clean and avoiding actions that might result in infection.
Buy a toy from this list to know you’re getting a pregnancy-safe product. All of the toys above have been medically tested for safety. They are made by top, trusted sex toy manufacturers, and they’ve been tried and vouched for by real pregnant users.
Listen to your body. Every pregnancy is different, so listen to your intuition and your body before all else. If something doesn’t feel right, don’t do it. If you don’t enjoy using a particular toy, try a different one. Pleasure during pregnancy can be trial and error, but it’s worth the effort
Where to Buy Sex Toys for Pregnancy
It’s critical to invest in high-quality toys made from the safest materials while pregnant. This also means you should only trust certain sellers.
Never buy toys from gift shops at the mall, and avoid sellers on Amazon, social media, and auction sites. You don’t know where these toys come from.
Sellers may also pull a bait-and-switch—advertising one product and shipping you a different low-quality knock-off.
Buy sex toys directly from the manufacturer or trusted retailers like Condomania. Condomania is America’s first-ever condom shop, and we’ve been spreading the word on safe sex for over 30 years.
Many of us at Condomania have been pregnant. We’ve had the same questions you have right now, and we’re glad to give back by recommending the sex toys that gave us a little extra glow during our pregnancies.
Plus, we offer FREE shipping on all the toys on this list, FREE discreet packaging and billing, and FREE fun freebies with your order.
If you have any additional questions, feel free to reach out for a chat. We love to hear from baby mamas with needs 🤰 😍!
In the meantime, choose one of the toys on the list above and start exploring all of the new pleasures that pregnancy brings.