Buying Guide: Penis Extenders (aka Penis Sleeves)

Buying Guide: Penis Extenders (aka Penis Sleeves)


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Looking to add a little more length (or girth) to your game in bed?

Penis extenders (also known as penis sleeves) can deliver a big boost of confidence and pleasure to you and your partner without the need for sketchy penis pills or stretchers.

But how do they work? And which extenders are actually worth the money?

Penis extenders vary widely in quality and style. For example, some add length and girth, others add girth only, and some add vibrating sensations to your D. 

Some penis sleeves significantly reduce the wearer’s sensation, while others allow both partners to feel every bump and grind.

Here’s the most important thing to know: You need to put some effort into choosing a penis sleeve that fits your personal needs—and your partner’s body.

Your partner will NOT be happy if the sleeve is too big (ouch!), and you might be disappointed if you can’t feel your partner or if you’re unable to thrust comfortably. 

Don’t worry; at Condomania, we’ve been slinging penis extenders for over a decade. I’ve personally tried over 20 different penis sleeves to learn exactly how to make the absolute most out of them in bed.

Now, I’m going to pass my HARD-earned knowledge (pun intended) on to you. In this complete penis extender buying guide, you’ll learn: 

👉 Quick penis extender basics

👉 Why you should buy a penis extender

👉 Types of penis extenders to choose from

👉 Our top penis sleeve recommendations 

👉 How to use a penis extender

👉 What you need to know when shopping for a penis extender

👉 Penis extender safety tips

👉 And more…

By the end of this read, you’ll know how to choose a penis extender that boosts your confidence, performance, and satisfaction in bed.

Let’s get to it!

Penis Extender Basics: What is a Penis Sleeve?

A Penis extender, or penis sleeve, is a sheath you slide over your penis. Its purpose is to increase the dimensions of your trouser tool. 

Penis extenders are popular because they are so easy to use. Just slide the penis sheath on your shaft and you’re good to go.

There are a few methods to secure the sleeve in place, but we’ll get into that a bit later (see the section, How to Use a Penis Sleeve below). 

Penis sleeves are available in a variety of shapes, sizes, and materials. Some of the most popular are realistic sleeves, which look and feel like the real thing. 

Penis extenders have long been used as an effective and non-invasive treatment for ED. They’re also popular among guys who want to add a little more heat to what they’re packing in their shorts.

But penis sleeves aren’t only used to overcome issues in the bedroom. They open the doors to an entirely new world of kinks and sensations. 

Just think—what if you could modify the size and shape of your peen? With a penis extender, you can explore a new world of sensations with your partner, exponentially multiplying your sexual repertoire. 

Why Use a Penis Sleeve? 

Some people use penis sleeves because they need them to help with issues like ED or premature ejaculation (PE). Others like them because they’re fun to use. 

If you fall into one of the following categories, you should consider adding a penis extender to your sex toy collection.

👉 You have ED: If you can’t maintain an erection, a penis extender can give you the extra oomph you need to go the distance. 

👉 You want to last longer: Penis extenders reduce the sensation you feel during sex. If other options, such as desensitizing condoms, haven’t worked for you, a penis extender is worth a try.

👉 You want more length and girth: Whether it’s for your partner or just for you, adding an extra inch or two can be a big confidence booster. Most penis extenders add length and girth to satisfy your own kinks and your partner’s needs.

👉 You want more variety in your sex life: Tantalize your partner with entirely new sensations by changing the shape and size of your shaft. Try new colors, textures (like ribs and studs), or vibrations. 

👉 Role-playing or size kink: Got a size kink? Ever wanted to role-play as a porn star with a massive schlong? A penis sleeve unleashes your dong’s inner thespian, allowing it to tackle any role. 

Our Top Penis Extender Picks

I’ve tried loads of penis extenders over the past few years, and throughout my journey, I realized that some are much better than others, regardless of make or model. Some brands just suck.

I also realized that certain sleeves weren’t for me—but that other people loved them. So, before getting to our top overall picks, it’s worth learning the types of penis extenders you can choose from. 


Types of Penis Extender Sleeves

The following types of penis sleeves typically come in a variety of size options.

👉 Realistic Penis Sleeves: These penis sleeves look and feel like real mean meat. Veins and all, they are made with a flesh-like material that feels like real skin.

I recommend the realistic penis extenders by Pipedream Fantasy X-Tensions.

👉 Textured Penis Sleeves: Some penis sleeves have ribs, studs, or other textures on the surface to further boost your partner’s pleasure. Others have textures internally to provide sensation for the wearer.

Try the Clearly Ample Penis Enhancer with internal pleasure nubs.

👉 Vibrating Penis Sleeves: Vibrating penis sleeves add a new level of stimulation for both partners, and they’re great for foreplay too. Try The Great Extender vibrating penis sleeve.

👉 Open-ended Penis Sleeves: These penis extenders allow your head to poke out the end of the extender. The wearer feels much more sensation this way, but it limits the amount of length you can add.

Try the Oxballs Invader Clear Ice Penis Sheath.

Girth Enhancers: Girth enhancers add extra girth to your member but don’t increase the length. They often cover less of your penis, allowing you to feel more of your partner.

Try the Zero Tolerance Vibrating Girth Enhancer.


Overall Picks: The Best Penis Extenders to Buy Now

I’ve tried nearly two dozen penis extenders and read over 2000 reviews to find the very best cock sleeves available now. Here are my favorites along with a few of the best-reviewed sleeves around the web. 

Fantasy X-Tension Mega 2” Penis Extension Sleeve

What is it?: A realistic penis extender with a suction grip and customizable fit. 

Why I love it: Fantasy X-tensions is a fantastic go-to penis sleeve because it’s highly likely to be a great fit for your dong. This is not necessarily true of other sleeves—it can be tough to find a good fit. 

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Fantasy X-Tension Mega 2

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This cock sleeve is trimmable—just cut it down to the right size until you achieve the perfect fit. It also stays on confidently without the need for a ball strap.

Just give the sleeve a squeeze to remove the air and vacuum seal it to your body. It feels and looks like the real thing to you and your partner. 

The “mega” version of the Fantasy X-Tensions cock sleeve adds both length and considerable girth to your dangle. If it’s too big for your partner, try the smaller 1” sleeve


Performance 10” Cock Sheath Penis Extender 

What is it?: A realistic penis extender with a ball strap.

Why I love it: This is a classic penis extender with a ball strap—though it also has suction power thanks to internal ribbing.

Performance - 10" Cock Sheath Penis Extender - Vanilla

Performance - 10

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These dual layers of security make for an extra confident fit. If you’ve had trouble with other sleeves sliding off during sex, give this one a go.

At 10”, this penis extender might seem huge, but that includes the strap as well, so you’re actually looking at a practical extension of about 1.5”.

The Performance Cock Sheath is made of TPE material, which is very life-like but also delicate. So, it’s important to clean it thoroughly to prevent damage. 


Clearly Ample Penis Enhancer 

What is it?: A budget penis extender with internal nubs for the wearer’s pleasure. This extender is clear and see-through (non-realistic).

Why I love it: Sometimes it’s nice to be able to see your real dick when wearing a penis extender, and you can do that with the Clearly Ample.

Clearly Ample Penis Enhancer with Ball Loop (Adds 1.5")

Clearly Ample Penis Enhancer with Ball Loop (Adds 1.5

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This non-realistic sleeve has a ball strap and a pretty confident fit. However, it doesn’t have strong suction, so you might want to consider the above options on this list if you’ve had trouble with ill-fitting sleeves in the past.

If you want to feel more sensation while doing the deed with a sleeve, this is a good choice. The internal nubs massage your D as you thrust, helping you stay hard.


Fantasy X-Tensions Vibrating Couples Cage 

What is it?: A vibrating and textured penis sleeve with a clitoral vibrator extension.

Why I love it: This sleeve has it all—textures, vibration, fun colors, and the confident fit I expect from Fantasy X-Tensions.

Fantasy X-Tensions "Vibrating Couples Cage" Penis Extension Sleeve

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The vibrating clitoral stimulator adds a new dimension here. It’s excellent for partners who get off from clit stimulation—it’s like turning your dick into a rabbit vibrator

This penis sleeve adds just 1” to your length, which makes it extra easy to maneuver. Just make sure to talk to your partner before trying this one.

Vibes, textures, and extra size combine to add an intense boost in sensation. 


Zero Tolerance Vibrating Girth Enhancer  

What is it?: A girth enhancer that vibrates. This sheath only covers part of the shaft.

Why I love it: Unlike the other penis sleeves on this list, the Zero Tolerance does not cover the entire shaft.

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Zero Tolerance Vibrating Girth Enhancer for Men

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It straps to the top of your penis via a cock ring and a scrotum ring, adding extra girth to your member. This enables you to feel full sensation on about 75% of your shaft. 

It also adds some extra length, making it a real have-your-cake penis extender. 

If you don’t have issues with PE, this is an excellent sleeve for maximizing your sensation. The way it straps on can be a bit awkward at first. There’s a slight learning curve, but it’s worth it.


Oxballs Invader Clear Ice Penis Sheath 

What is it?: An open-ended, non-realistic cock sleeve with textures on the exterior.

Why I love it: This open-ended penis sleeve exposes the head of your penis (where all of your nerve endings are located) so you can feel more pleasure from sex.

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Oxballs Invader

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It also features big upraised bumps/ribs on the exterior to drive your partner wild with. I found the textures to be amazing for G-spot play and anal sex. 

More pleasure for you and your partner? You can’t go wrong. 

The only issue is that this penis sleeve adds no length. The shaft depth is about 5” long, so if you’re packing under 5.5”, this sleeve may be too large for you.


How to Use a Penis Sleeve

Penis sleeves are super easy to use. The key is to wear yours so it stays on confidently during sex. 

There are three methods for securing a penis extender: 

👉 Sleeves with a vacuum seal

👉 Sleeves with ball (scrotum) straps

👉 Sleeves with scrotum holes

Some penis extenders use one method or the other, and some use multiple. We’ll walk you through how to use each method below.

How to use a penis extender with a vacuum seal:

👉 Apply lube to the head of your penis. Add some lube to the shaft too (don’t add too much lube or the sleeve will slide off).

👉 Put your penis inside the sleeve and slide it down to the base of your shaft. The sleeve should feel tight, but not uncomfortable or painful. 

👉 Give the sleeve a gentle squeeze if necessary, forcing any remaining air out of the base. This should vacuum seal the sleeve to your penis. 

How to use a penis extender with a scrotum strap/loop:

👉 Apply lube liberally to your shaft and balls. Use plenty of lube—don’t be shy here. 

👉 Put some lube on the scrotum strap and inside the sleeve. 

👉 Place your penis into the sleeve and slide your balls, one by one, into the scrotum loop.

How to use a penis extender with a scrotum hole:

👉 Apply lube liberally to your balls and shaft.

👉 Add lube to the inside of the shaft, especially around the opening and the scrotum hole.

👉 Slide your penis into the shaft until you reach your balls. Then, slide your balls, one by one if necessary, into the sleeve and out the scrotum hole. 

You may have noticed when reading these instructions that lube is critical when putting on a penis extender. Make sure you have plenty of sex lube on hand.

Remember, never use silicone lube with silicone penis extenders. Silicone lube will degrade the material and may lead to bacteria and mold growth.

Stick with water-based lube when using penis sleeves. It’s sex-toy-safe and easy to clean.

Do Penis Sleeves Really Work?

Yes, penis sleeves really work. They add length and girth to your penis, giving you the power to plow with a larger prod. When worn correctly, penis sleeves fit comfortably and feel natural to both partners. 

But to be fair, that’s not a very good question. There are a bunch of reasons to wear a penis sleeve, and everyone’s body is different.

So, a sleeve that works great for someone might be a disappointment to another. 

Unfortunately, it can take time to find a penis extender that you really like because you can’t try one on before you buy. 

You’ll have a much better chance of finding the right one if you take the following into consideration:

👉 Size (of your penis): Check the length of the inner chamber of the sleeve when shopping for a penis extender.

Some are made for smaller guys and may not fit shafts over 6” long. Others may be too roomy, causing the sleeve to fold or flop around during sex.

👉 Size (of the extender): Shorter penis extenders offer a more confident fit. Longer ones are a bit floppier and harder to manage.

This is just physics at work. If you want to upgrade to a really huge meat stick (like the Fantasy X-Tensions Mega 3” Penis Sleeve), prepare to do a bit more work to stabilize it during sex. 

👉 Sensation: How much sensation do you want to feel while wearing a penis extender? Most sleeves completely cover your penis, eliminating most sensation.

Others leave some parts of your dangle exposed so you can feel your partner’s parts. And some have internal textures to provide a bit of pleasure as you thrust.

If you need sensation to stay hard, consider an option that provides you with some pleasure.

👉 Material: Realistic and skin-like materials are often more delicate and require more care. These penis extenders might not last as long as others and may be more prone to tearing.

However, most people on the receiving end prefer realistic materials.

If you want a longer-lasting and low-maintenance sleeve, try a penis extender made from more durable materials, like the Really Ample Penis Enhancer Sheath.

👉 Fragility: Most penis extenders are made with fragile materials that imitate the feel of skin. If you plan to have fast or rough sex, you risk breaking the sleeve.

Thrust at a smooth and steady rhythm to avoid bending the sleeve and causing tears at the base of the shaft.

👉 Your partner: One of the best ways to get the WRONG sleeve is to buy a penis extender without talking to your partner first.

Discuss their needs and size preferences, and then shop for a penis sleeve together. It’s more fun that way, anyway. If you’re not sure how to broach the topic with your partner, learn some tips here

What Does Using a Penis Extender Feel Like? 

A penis extender is basically a wearable dildo.

If you’re wearing a penis extender, you can expect to feel little to no sensation from your partner’s body (unless you choose an open-ended sleeve or girth enhancer that leaves some of your penis exposed).

Instead, you’ll feel the interior of the penis sleeve.

Want to treat yourself to some additional sensation?  Grab a Male Vibrator.

Depending on the sleeve you buy, this might be a comfy, soft material. Or, it might be ribbed or studded material meant to massage your dick or hold it in place. 

Regardless of the material, you can expect the penis extender to feel like you’re sticking your dick into a soft, snug, rubbery tube. 

If it feels loose or uncomfortably tight, you’re wearing the wrong size. A penis sleeve should never be painful to wear.

Are Penis Sleeves Safe? 

Yes, penis extenders are very safe. In fact, they are probably the safest method of growing your penis. 

Doctors and sexual health medical professionals have concluded that there are no health risks or side effects associated with using penis extenders.

However, there are a few slight risks to be aware of if you use a penis extender the wrong way.

Here’s what you need to consider to stay safe when using a penis extender:

👉 Keep it clean: The biggest risk associated with penis extenders relates to hygiene. You must clean your sleeve well and keep it in a cool, dry place.

If not, it could attract bacteria or mold. This may lead to you or your partner getting an infection, such as a UTI or yeast infection.

👉 Wear the right size: Never wear a penis sleeve that feels painfully tight on the shaft or scrotum. Restricting blood flow to the penis can be dangerous. 

👉 Be clear with your partner: Never use a penis extender without telling your partner first. If the shaft is too big for their body, it can cause pain or injury.

Even after talking about it, take it slow at first to make sure your partner is comfortable with the larger size. 

Where to Buy a Penis Extender 

Many penis extenders are advertised as products for ED. While they are great for ED, there’s a reason why so many manufacturers want to be associated with medical treatment—they can charge a ton of money. 

Recreational penis sleeves are virtually identical to these “medical” brands but cost up to 10x less. And the best place to shop for those penis sleeves is Condomania

Condomania is America’s first-ever condom store (we opened our doors in 1991), and we’ve been selling penis extenders for over a decade.

Condomania is the best place to buy penis extenders that are medically tested for your safety (we only stock top brands)—but not medically priced. 

At Condomania, you’ll find one of the largest selections of penis extenders on the web. And shopping with us comes with some serious perks, such as:

👉 Discreet packaging and billing 

👉 Exclusive pricing and deals on penis extenders (and way more)

👉 Free stuff with your order 

👉 Which penis extender will you try?

If you’re looking for a no-brainer budget sleeve, try The Great Extender 6” Penis Sleeve. At just about $20, it’s a great one to test the waters. 

For something a bit larger and more durable, go for the Oxballs Muscle Ripped Cocksheath

Otherwise, the picks on our list above won’t let you down.

Looking for more fun accessories to use with your dick? Check out our beginner’s guide to cock rings here!

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