Thinking of getting a sexy gift for a man in your life (or for yourself)?
Male sex toys make amazing gifts for guys. Not only do they boost his solo pleasure by about 1000%, but they can also improve his sex life and bring him closer to his partner.
But, it can be tough to know where to start when shopping for male sex toys. What is he into? How do you know if he’ll like it? And where can you find quality sex toys that won’t fizzle and bust before he does?
Luckily, Condomania is here to answer all of those questions and loads more. Condomania is America’s first condom shop, opened in New York City in 1991. Our sexual health experts have been reviewing and researching sex toys for over 30 years, so we know what makes a stellar (and safe) gift for a guy.
In this complete male sex toy gift guide, we’ll give you the long and short on:
- The best male sex toy gifts
- Types of male sex toys to choose from
- How to find out which toys he might like
- How to shop for sex toys for guys
- How to give a guy a sex toy (without being awkward or cringe)
Alright, enough teasing. Let’s get to it!
The Best Male Sex Toy Gifts
Most sex toy websites are full of gag gifts and off-brands.
They aren’t made for pleasure or safety—they’re built to make a quick buck from uninformed buyers.
Save yourself some time (and minimize the number of fleshlights in your browser history) by choosing from the list below.
All of these male sex toys are durable, top-rated for his pleasure, and medically tested for safety.
For more info on each male sex toy category, skip to the next section.
The Best Male Masturbators and Masturbation Sleeves
Tenga Spinner - Pure pleasure comes easy with this hand-held masturbation sleeve
Palm-Tec Stroker DX - A ribbed see-through sleeve great for solo fun and foreplay
VeDO Grip Vibrating Sleeve - Add a new sensation with vibration
Fun Factory Manta Stroker - A deep-throat simulating stroker with loads of settings
LELO F1S V2X Sleeve - The ultimate hi-tech sleeve. App-controlled for hands-free pleasure
TENGA Spinner Penis Stroker | 'Beads' 05
$25.99
$34.99
Tenga Spinner "Beads" Reuseable Spiral-Motion Male Masturbator If you're looking for your new best friend, look no further than the Tenga Spinner "Beads" Male Masturbator. The inside of the Beads Masturbator is uniquely fitted with a spiral of varied, alternating spheres for a unique… Read More
Palm Tec Stroker DX Masturbation Sleeve
$32.99
$35.99
Palm Tec Stroker DX Gentlemen...start your engines. 🏎️ This deluxe clear stroker amplifies performance as well as pleasure. Ergonomically contoured to grip and view, the Palm-Tec DX is designed with a ribbed interior for the ultimate in solo pleasure and… Read More
VeDo GRIP Vibrating Penis Stroker
$60.99
$69.99
Introducing the VeDo Grip for Men Say YES to the Vedo Grip Vibrating Stroker. This penis masturbation toy is great for both Solo play and Partner play. Recommended for use in the bedroom or the shower -- the Vedo Grip won't let… Read More
Fun Factory Manta Rechargeable Vibrating Male Stroker For Men - Deep Blue
$139.99
The Fun Factory Manta: A penis toy for solo and couple play. Wowzer! You've never seen anything like this... Turn your penis into a vibrator with Manta Fits around the shaft for stroking or focused sensation Upgrade your BJ with a vibrating… Read More
LELO F1S V2X App-Controlled Penis Masturbation Sleeve - Blue
$229.00
F1S V2 is the next generation of the ultimate pleasure toy, a penis sleeve created for the thrill-seekers who want to explore optimal satisfaction. F1S V2 has double the strength, four uniquely designed program variations, and a softer, more flexible… Read More
The Best Male Anal Toys and Prostate Massagers
B-Vibe Cinco Beads XL Vibrating Anal Beads - All-in-one vibrator, prostate massager, anal beads, and butt plug
Colt Anal Trainer Kit - The perfect gift for a butt-stuff beginner
Le Wand Prostate Massager - No bells and whistles. Just a great prostate massager
B Vibe Rimming Butt Plug - Remote-controlled vibrating butt plug
LELO Hugo Prostate Massager - Hi-tech and hands-free, this one delivers the big prostate O’s
B-Vibe Cinco Beads XL Vibrating Anal Beads - Black
$153.00
$170.00
B-Vibe Cinco Beads Meet the B-Vibe Cinco Anal Beads: the only premium set of vibrating anal beads that feature five flexible tapered beads, an easy grip handle, three powerful rumbly motors, and a remote control that works up to 30 feet away.… Read More
Colt Anal Trainer Kit with 3 Different Sizes
$32.99
$39.99
Colt Anal Trainer Kit with 3 Different Sizes Failing to prepare is preparing to fail. Always be ready by using the Colt Anal Trainer Kit. Three graduated sizes of anal plugs, from 1" to 1.5" wide, will help you to… Read More
Le Wand Stainless Swerve Metal Prostate Massager
$135.00
Le Wand Stainless Swerve Satiate your desire for the sensation of fullness and weighted pressure in all the right spots the Le Wand Swerve provides a sensational choice of multiple stimulation options. This smooth and sleek dynamic dual-ended pleasure tool… Read More
B-Vibe Rimming Plug 2 Vibrating Butt Plug
$148.50
$165.00
B-Vibe Rimming Plug 2 Vibrating Butt Plug Meet the first premium plug engineered to incorporate rotating beads for a rimming sensation at the entry of the bum- where the highest level of nerve endings is located. A powerful overall vibration… Read More
The Best Cock Rings
Atomic Jock Cock Ring - No-nonsense flexible cock ring for harder erections and bigger finishes
Rooster JUSTUS Double Cock Ring - Two rings for double the pleasure. BDSM-friendly!
Velv’OR Rooster Adjustable Cock Ring - Easy to put on and adjust for his level of comfort
Fun Factory NOS Vibrating Cock Ring - Ultra-comfy silicone with multiple vibration points
Atomic Jock 'Do-Nut-2' Large Cock Ring
$4.99
$5.99
Atomic Jock "Do-Nut-2" Cock Ring The Oxballs Atomic Jock Cock Ring is a super-stretchy, non-rolling cock ring option for those looking for a simple solution that stays in place throughout their entire lovemaking session. You can wear this cock ring all day… Read More
Velv'Or Rooster Justus Double Ring Cock Ring
$18.99
$19.99
Velv'Or Rooster Justus Double Ring Cock Ring Rooster Justus is a playful multifunctional, soft silicone, double ring, cock ring. Both rings have the same measurements allowing wearers to be creative. They can wear both rings behind their package, one on… Read More
Satisfyer "Power Ring" Rechargeable Vibrating Cock Ring
$32.99
$38.99
Power Up Your Pleasure Journey! Say hello to the superhero of stamina – the Satisfyer Power Ring! This vibrating wonder isn't just a cock ring; it's your ticket to an electrifying experience that leaves both you and your partner screaming… Read More
Velv'Or Drake Dual-Ring Vibrating Cock Ring
$25.99
$28.99
Unleash the Drake: Your Gateway to Pleasure! Meet Drake, the maestro of pleasure, ready to transform your intimate moments into an electrifying symphony. This isn't your average cock ring; it's an experience waiting to be had. Wear It Your Way: Drake is… Read More
Velv'Or Rooster Ragnar Adjustable Lasso String Cock Ring - BROWN
$14.99
$19.99
ROOSTER RAGNAR is a firm silicone cock ring, combining a broad strap and slender strings in one design to provide dynamic experiences. The lasso can be easily adjusted by sliding the locker up and down the strings. Men can wear the lasso… Read More
The Best Male Sex Toys for Couples
Frisky Bunny Cock Ring - Keeps him hard and vibes against her clit for double the fun
Spinning Fantasy Sex Swing - Every guy’s dream is to experience zero-gravity sex positions!
Pillo by Dame Wedge Pillow - Unlock new positions and better BJs with this simple wedge
VeDO Frisky Bunny Vibrating Cock Ring - Purple
$34.99
$44.99
Frisky Bunny Vibrating Cock Ring The super-sexy Frisky Bunny Rechargeable Vibrating Ring by VeDO delivers precision-placed vibrating pleasure to both mates, all while enhancing and supporting his erection. You want a cock ring to maintain blood flow to keep your… Read More
Fetish Fantasy Series Spinning Fantasy Swing - Black
$195.99
$230.00
Difficult sexual positions are no longer exclusive to the athletic and sexually gifted...Now any couple can perform the most difficult most stimulating sexual positions ever imagined - and reap the benefits and pleasures they arouse. Enjoy weightless sex in unlimited… Read More
Pillo by Dame Firm Wedge Sex Pillow with Removable Cover
$95.00
Sex Pillow Wedge with Removable Cover Pillo is a soft-yet-firm wedge that supports one in a variety of sex positions, allowing you to find all the perfect angles. This stylish pillow easily blends into the bedroom or office by day and helps you reach… Read More
Other Kinky Sex Toys for Men
Penis Extenders - Great for role-playing, pegging, and adding oomph to the bedroom
Sensational Sex Lube - Try some tingling, warming, numbing, or cooling lube for a new twist
Kinky Condoms - Flavored condoms, glow-in-the-dark, textured—the fun never ends!
Types of Male Sex Toys: What’s the Difference?
There are as many types of male sex toys as there are types of pleasure for men. And that’s a lot more than you might think! Don’t downplay what gets your guy off. Do a bit of research and buy him a toy he’ll love.
Luckily, that research won’t take long! We’ll tell you all you need to know about the different kinds of male sex toys below.
Masturbation Sleeves: Think of these as much-improved alternatives to the tube sock. It’s a soft, (usually silicone-based) sleeve that slides over the shaft and makes masturbation better.
He uses his hand to slide it up and down the shaft, and it’s usually got lots of textures inside to increase sensation. High-tech versions include vibration, warming sensations, and hands-free remote controls.
Masturbation Stokers: Strokers look like wands with a ring or hole at the end for the shaft. He sticks his peen in the appropriate spot and strokes. Most strokers have vibrating functions.
They’re great for couples because unlike sleeves, they allow full access to the shaft while in use. They add extra vibrating fun to foreplay and sex.
Cock Rings: No man should be without a cock ring! They’re durable and easy-to-use sex toys that improve masturbation and sex.
Cock rings restrict blood flow out of the penis to make erections harder. They also make orgasms much more intense and can give his “shot” more distance.
There are loads of cock ring styles to choose from, including flexible, hard, adjustable vibrating, and more. They’re also some of the most affordable sex toys for men.
Anal Toys: Butt play isn’t about gay or straight. All guys have sensitive nerve endings in the back door that drive them wild.
Butt plugs, anal beads, and anal vibrators stimulate these areas to add new heights of pleasure to sex and masturbation.
Prostate Massagers: The king of all male orgasms is the prostate O. Guys can achieve these orgasms, which deliver waves of continuous pleasure, by stimulating the prostate through the back door.
Special massagers and anal toys are designed to reach the prostate easily. Some even come with remote controls for hands-free stimulation.
Sex Furniture: Guys use a lot of muscles when they get ready to bust, so changing up the angle of their hips, legs, and chest can produce a wide variety of sensations.
Not to mention, the angle of his partner affects his pleasure too. A simple sex pillow can add a lot of variety to his sex life. A sex swing or bondage board? Now we’re talking!
BDSM Toys: From ticklers to blindfolds to whips and handcuffs, every guy has a little BDSM in him.
Introducing him to bondage with a sexy game can open up new doors in his sex life—and new avenues of pleasure.
How To Choose a Male Sex Toy for Your Guy
Now that you’re a male sex toy expert, it’s time to choose the right gift. But how do you know what he’ll be into and what will sit in his closet gathering dust until his mom accidentally finds it?
Just ask yourself the following three questions—they’ll guide you to the perfect sex toy gift.
How much do you know about his likes and dislikes in the bedroom?
You might be open to buying someone a sex toy without really knowing what they’re into. If that’s the case, go for the sure-fire winner: a masturbation sleeve.
These sex toys for men are universally loved because they make masturbation better. And what guy wouldn’t want that?
If you know what he likes in the bedroom or the type of stimulation that really gets him going, get him a sex toy that pushes his boundaries in that direction.
For example, if he likes to dominate, you might want to get him some handcuffs. If he likes rim jobs, you could get him an anal vibrator.
Are you having sex together?
If you’re having sex with the guy you’re buying a gift for, choose a gift that he can use alone and during sex.
For example, he can use a remote-controlled masturbator or cock ring to boost his solo orgasms and add new dimensions to foreplay. One partner can wear the toy while the other holds the controls… 😈.
Just remember that when you’re buying him a sex toy, the focus should be on his pleasure first.
What’s your Budget?
Quality male sex toys are not very cheap. If you’re trying to spend less than $25, you’re going to have to choose something low-tech.
That’s by no means a bad thing!
You can get a totally doable cock ring or masturbator at that price point.
If you don’t have a lot of cash and try to buy something fancy, you might end up with a low-quality gimmick product that’s unsafe or just plain boring.
Luckily, you won’t find any products like that at Condomania! But the point remains: good sex toys are expensive for a reason.
They need to be sanitary, safe, and worth the effort.
How to Shop for Sex Toys: Where to Start So He Can Finish?
For most, shopping for sex toys is not nearly as pleasurable as using them. It’s difficult to find sex toys you can trust. They don’t sell them at Wal-Mart, after all.
While the internet makes things easier, there are tons of cheap sites selling knock-off pocket pussies and dildos that were probably unearthed from a bunker in the former Soviet bloc.
If you want to shop for sex toys the right way (and avoid antique communist spyware infiltrating your orifices), follow these steps:
- Don’t shop at brick-and-mortar sex stores: Those sex stores by the highway and gag stores at the mall are not safe places to buy sex toys. Many of those toys are joke gifts and not made for sex and masturbation. Others are overpriced and cheaply made.
- Shop online from established brands: Online, you can shop for hundreds of sex toys from dozens of brands. But make sure the online shop you choose is established and well-reviewed. Sleazy middleman sites pop up all the time to turn a quick buck. Condomania has been in the business for over 30 years—trusted longer than anyone else.
- Look for medically-tested toys and products with FDA approval: Does your sex toy shop care about your health? Most don’t! Condomania only sells medically-tested sex toys and condoms and lube approved for safe sex by the FDA.
- Check for discreet packaging options: You don’t want him to see his gift when it ships to your door. You also might not want your neighbors or your mail carrier to see a package arrive in the shape of a big black dildo. Reliable online shops (like Condomania!) ship your goods in discreet packaging—your sex life is your business.
How to Give a Guy a Sex Toy (the Non-Awkward Way)
Giving a sex toy as a gift can be intimidating even if you’re in a relationship.
If you’re totally comfortable handing him a shiny new butt plug set, then more power to you! But he might not be comfortable receiving it depending on the time, place, and atmosphere. So how do you give a sex toy to a guy the right way?
Here are a few suggestions:
- Give some warning: Receiving an unexpected sex toy can be a bit of a shock. Try telling him earlier in the day or week that you want to give him a sexy gift later. This will get him excited and make the gifting even better.
- Read the room: You might have your heart set on giving him his anal beads over dinner, but if there’s a party of nuns at the next table, the timing might not be right. Use your gut. If you’re both feeling loose and comfy, give the gift. If the situation is tense or not very sexy, hold off.
- Do it in private: Sometimes, it’s best to give your gift in private. Most guys don’t open up about their sex lives to very many people. Just because he talks about it with you doesn’t mean he wants others to see him unwrapping a penis stroker.
- Ask him to open it later: If you’re feeling shy (or he is), give him the gift to open later and ask him to message you when he does. This takes some of the pressure off and opens up easier methods of communicating.
- Make it part of foreplay: If you’re having sex, there’s no better time to give a gift than during foreplay. The mood is already set, and he can try his sex toy out right away with your help.
Find Your Male Sex Toy Gift at Condomania
Congrats! You’re officially a male sex toy gift-giving guru.
Now, you’re ready to pick up a sex toy for the lucky guy in your life. Get your shopping started by browsing the MASSIVE selection of male sex toys at Condomania.
Our selection is the best on the web, and we offer exclusive discounts and free shipping to our adoring customers.
There’s a reason we’ve been America’s favorite condom and sex toy shop since 1991! Visit Condomania now for all your sex toys, lubes, condoms, and a whole lot more.