What is a Penis Extender? The Long and Short of Cock Sleeves...

What is a Penis Extender? The Long and Short of Cock Sleeves...


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What is a penis extender?

Ever wonder what it would be like to be a little longer or a bit thicker? Or maybe you want to enjoy sex without worrying about finishing too fast?

Penis extenders to the rescue.

Penis extenders (also called penis sleeves, cock sleeves, and penis sheathes) are a non-pharmaceutical and non-invasive way for penis havers to get BIGGER.

These sex toys slide over your erect shaft (like a glove) to enhance what you’re already packing.

They’re ideal solutions for guys who have erectile dysfunction (ED) or want to last longer, but they’re popular for recreational use too.

Just imagine being able to modify the shape, size, and function of your D.

Some penis extenders add ribs to your shaft. Others vibrate. And a few come in fun colors and designs, so you can finally fulfill your kink of having an alien penis (or is that just me?).

Whether you want to get bigger, stay harder or just have some fun, a penis extender is the sex toy you didn’t know you needed in your arsenal. Below, we’ll tell you:

👉 What is a penis extender?

👉 Who should use a penis extender?

👉 Our favorite penis sleeves

👉 How do penis extenders work?

👉 What does it feel like to use a cock sleeve?

👉 How do you use a penis extender?

👉 Are penis sleeves safe?

What is a Penis Extender?

A penis extender is a hollow sleeve that you insert your penis into in order to give it more length and/or girth. It’s a sex toy for people with a penis.

You wear a penis extender over your dick during sex to alter the size and shape of your manhood.

This gives you the opportunity to bring new sensations to the bedroom, lengthen your performance, or stay hard in the heat of the moment.

Penis extenders are made from rubber or silicone and typically resemble real penises in appearance and shape.

Though others come in a variety of shapes, colors, and functions, such as vibrating penis extenders and textured penis extenders.

But won’t a penis extender limit sensation during sex?

That depends. Guys who want to last longer might find that sex with a penis enhancer offers the perfect amount of sensation.

For others, there are different types of extenders to choose from.

Closed-ended sleeves completely cover your D, while open-ended sleeves allow your head to pop out the end so you can feel your partner skin-on-skin (these are often called girth sleeves because they don’t add length).

The right penis extender for you depends on your peen, your kinks, and your partner.

Luckily, most are under $50, so you can buy a penis extender online (or two) and test the waters without risking much cash.

Why Use a Penis Extender?

Don’t know if a penis extender is for you? If you fall into any of the following categories, you may love this sex toy for men.

👉 You want more length: A penis extender doesn’t have to give you a gargantuan dong. Adding 1-3 inches to your game is all it takes. That can be a pretty huge deal for guys on the shorter size. 

👉 You want extra girth: When it comes to pleasure, girth is more important than length for most women. Penis extenders can boost your thickness by 30% or more to give your partner that “full” feeling.

👉 You want to last longer: If you want to last longer or have anxiety about finishing too quickly, a penis extender can liberate you from stress and boost your confidence.

Plus, if you finish while wearing the extender, you can keep the good times rolling.

👉 You have ED: If you can’t maintain an erection, a penis extender can give you a helping hand without the need for drugs. As long as you buy the right size, it'll stay on tight even if you start to go flaccid.

👉 You want to expand your sex repertoire: Spice up your time between the sheets by changing your D’s shape, color, size, and function with a penis extender.

Variety is the spice of life, and nothing says variety like adding ribs to your dong.

Remember, penis extenders aren’t about making you better than you are now. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with your hog, whether it’s thick, thin, long, or short.

Like any other sex toy, a cock sleeve adds something new to your sex life and gives you more control over your pleasure.

Top Penis Extenders to Buy Now

Which penis extenders do we recommend? At Condomania, we’ve been slinging sex toys for over 30 years.

During that time, we’ve encountered a lot of cock sleeves—we’ve sold them, we’ve used them, and we’ve spoken to manufacturers and customers.

We’ve only deemed a few products good enough to grace our shelves. And among those, these are our favorites...

Oxballs Muscle Smooth Cocksheath

This is a classic penis extender with a smooth exterior and a scrotum loop for a confident fit.

Oxballs Muscle Smooth Cocksheath - Smoke

Oxballs Muscle Smooth Cocksheath - Smoke

$54.99 $69.99

Oxballs Muscle Smooth Cocksheath Atomic Jock Penis Extender Now you can explore new horizons in your boy's bottomless hole with this dick-massaging cock enhancer. This brand spanking new cocksheath is made from an even softer TPR and unlike the GYM-BOY,… Read More

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It doesn’t look very fancy, but this sleeve is top-rated for a reason. Its interior grooves lock your junk in place so you can go as hard as you, please. And the extra-girthy head hits her in exactly the right (G)spot.


Fantasy X-Tension Mega 2” Penis Extension Sleeve

This is a realistic penis extender with no scrotum loop—it locks in place with your erection alone, adding 2” to your game and an extra 33% of girth.

Fantasy X-Tension Mega 2" Penis Extension Sleeve - Flesh

Fantasy X-Tension Mega 2

$40.99 $49.99

Fantasy X-Tension Mega 2-Inch Penis Extension Turn your penis into an instant pleasure machine with the incredible Fantasy X-tensions. Now you can be all the man you can be and satisfy your partner with this easy-to-use erection enhancer. Developed as… Read More

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It’s perfect for guys who find a scrotum loop uncomfortable, but it might not be suitable for those with ED.


Oxballs Invader Clear Ice

This girth sleeve has an open end for the head of your D, so you’ll be able to feel all of the pleasure of sex while enhancing your manhood.

Oxballs Invader "Clear Ice" Cocksheath Penis Extender

Oxballs Invader

$69.99 $74.99

Oxballs Invader Cocksheath Penis Extender Invader is Oxballs first open-ended cocksheath that is built to fuck as long and hard as you want. The shape gradually adds more thickness to your shafts so the middle is the fattest and it… Read More

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Divots and ribs add even more pleasure to this sleeve, and its clear design allows you to see everything.


Performance Plus 11.5” Silicone Cock Sheath

Ever wondered what it was like to be pornstar big? This 11.5 inches might not be the most practical sleeve ever, but for those with a size fetish, it can’t be beaten.

Performance Plus 11.5" Silicone Cock Sheath Penis Extender - Vanilla

Performance Plus 11.5

$62.99 $69.99

Performance Plus - 11.5"Silicone Cock Sheath Penis Extender - Vanilla The Performance Plus 11.5" Cock Sheath Penis Extender offers a smooth, realistic feel while maximizing your potential. Gain more girth and half an inch more length! The internal ribbing creates suction… Read More

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Thanks to the silicone material and scrotum loop, it fits pretty comfortably despite its massive size.


Zero Tolerance Vibrating Girth Enhancer

This girth enhancer is one of our favorites because it isn’t actually a sleeve. It only covers one side of your penis, allowing you to boost your girth PLUS add vibrations while feeling everything.

Zero Tolerance Vibrating Girth Enhancer for Men

Zero Tolerance Vibrating Girth Enhancer for Men

$59.99 $65.99

Zero Tolerance Vibrating Girth Enhancer: Go Big or Go Home Looking to bring a little extra buzz to the bedroom? The Zero Tolerance Vibrating Girth Enhancer delivers exactly what it promises—bigger, buzzier, and better-than-ever pleasure. Designed for anyone with a… Read More

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Ever wanted to have your cake and eat it too? This sex toy is the way.


Fantasy X-Tensions Vibrating Penis Extension

This penis extender may only give you an inch of extra length, but it comes with a built-in clit stimulator. The combo of extra length/girth + clit vibes is guaranteed to drive her wild.

Fantasy X-Tensions "Vibrating Couples Cage" Penis Extension Sleeve

Fantasy X-Tensions

$40.99 $49.99

Fantasy X-Tensions Vibrating Penis Extension & Clitoral Massager The Vibrating Couples Cage is the ultimate erection enhancer. With the super-stretchy cock cage wrapped around every inch of your manhood you will maintain rock-hard erections and prolong the fun while you… Read More

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We love this sleeve because it fits really comfortably without a scrotum loop—and it makes you feel like a god in bed.


How Do Penis Extenders Work?

A penis extender adds length and/or girth to your penis by firmly attaching to your erect shaft. So, while a penis extender enhances your D, you’re still the one in control.

How does a penis extender fit on your shaft? Won't it slide out of the sleeve?

As long as you choose the right size and stay semi-hard, your cock sleeve will stay firmly on your shaft.

Penis extenders are designed to hold tight and feel almost like a part of your body.

They accomplish this in one of two ways. Most cock sleeves have a scrotum loop attached.

You put your balls through this loop when you put your dick into the sleeve, which locks the sleeve in place.

Other sleeves, such as flexible silicone penis extenders, don’t have a scrotum loop. They’re airtight and fit you like a glove, thanks to suction.

Penis extenders with a scrotum loop are a bit more secure but can be slightly less comfortable than non-loop extenders.

If you only want to add an inch or two in length, you should be good with a non-loop penis extender. If you want to go really big or you’re into rougher play, get a sleeve with a loop.

What Does it Feel Like to Use a Penis Extender?

Using a penis extender may boost certain sensations and limit others. We won’t lie—using a penis extender will limit the physical pleasure you feel on your dick.

By covering your shaft, you’ll feel a lot less sensation. For some, this might be a good thing. Others may feel like they want more.

For the latter, we recommend a cock sleeve with an open end.

This type of sleeve exposes the head of the penis and allows for much more sensation.

While the physical sensation is limited, this may not matter if you’re after visual stimulation, kink satisfaction, or simply want to show your partner a wild time.

The stimulation you get from having a massive lunker or dominating in the bedroom might be more pleasurable to you than standard sex.

Our trouser trolls are notoriously hard to keep in line—finally, having control over your D and the pleasure it provides can be very exhilarating.

But are penis extenders comfortable? A quality penis extender in your size should fit like a glove and feel like a second skin.

If yours is uncomfortable, you may need to upgrade to a different product.

Silicone and TPR are the most comfortable materials to look for when shopping for penis extenders.

How do You Use a Penis Extender?

Penis extenders are pretty easy to use. If you have an extender with a scrotum loop, just put your balls through the loop and insert your shaft into the sleeve.

Your D can be hard or flaccid when you insert it, but make sure to get hard before having sex, or the sleeve won’t stay on very well.

If you have a sleeve without a scrotum loop, slide your penis into it once you’re hard. It should feel pretty tight around your shaft. If it doesn’t, squeeze a bit of air out to improve the suction power.

When your penis extender is on, you’re ready to go to town. You can have sex until the climax and finish inside the extender (unless you’re using an open-ended extender—then you should use a condom).

Even after you finish, you’ll be able to keep plowing as long as you maintain enough of an erection to keep the sleeve secure.

If you feel the sleeve slipping, stop right away to prevent any of your man juice from escaping near your partner’s baby-making parts.

After using your sleeve, clean it right away with a sex toy cleaner. Once it’s dry, put it in a cloth bag and store it in a dark place (like a sock drawer). You should also give it a quick wash before using it again.

Are Penis Extenders Safe?

Yes! Penis extenders are safe. They are totally non-invasive and non-pharmaceutical ways to enhance your penis in a variety of ways.

They are simply rubber or silicone sleeves for your dick. You can put one on and take it off as easily and safely as you can put on a condom.

That being said, you still have to follow the two golden rules of safe sex toy use:

👉 Use penis extenders as they are meant to be used: We can’t vouch for the safety of penis extenders if you want to use them for other purposes, such as using one as a butt plug (bad idea, btw).

👉 Always keep your sex toys clean: Your penis extender goes on your dick and inside your partner’s body. It needs to stay sparklingly clean to prevent infection.

Luckily, all you need is sex toy cleaner for peace of mind in that department.

Follow these rules and take care of your penis extender to enjoy safe and fantastic sex for the long haul.

Extend Your Pleasure with a Penis Extender

A penis extender is the easiest way to get more out of your manhood in the bedroom. More length, more girth, more textures and vibrations—and more pleasure from your partner.

Nothing is going to replace your OG penis, and that’s not the point of a penis extender. The point is to get more of a great thing—to enhance your sexual experiences.

And to give more to the lucky someone in your bed.

Are you ready to buy a penis extender? Where do you get started? We suggest the Oxballs Muscle Smooth Cocksheath for your first buy.

It’s just an all-around excellent cock sleeve (and we’ve tried a lot of them). If you’re not quite sure, browse more penis extenders here. They’ve all been vetted by our experts, so you won’t be disappointed.

Want to learn more about sex toys for men? How about introducing sex toys into your relationship? Check out these additional resources by our experts:

👉 The ultimate guide to sex toys for men 

👉 How to introduce sex toys into your relationship

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