The Best Sex Lubricants to Use with Sex Toys (Tested and Safe)

Sex toys need sex lubricant. It’s not a question or an option. It’s just a fact. 

Sex toys don’t self-lubricate, so you need to add lube if you want them to feel good.

But it’s not just that. Adding lube to sex toys keeps you safer and protects the sex toy material from damage. 

But there’s a catch. Not all lube can be used with all sex toys. And some lube isn’t safe to use on certain parts of your body (such as inside the vagina and butt)

So, what lube can you use safely with your sex toys? 

We’ve smoothed out this slippery topic below. And, we’ve recommended some of the best sex lubes for sex toys.  

TL;DR: Use This Lube with Sex Toys 

You don't need to become a sex lube-ologist to choose the right lube for your sex toy. If you don’t have time to read up on the topic, just use this lube and forget your worries:

Sliquid H2O. 

Sliquid H2O is a water-based lube, so it’s compatible with 100% of sex toys, condoms, body parts, and kinks. 

Sliquid H2O is also among the purest water-based lubes on the market. This makes it exceptionally safe in terms of pH and osmolality—both factors that can affect the health of the vagina and anal canal.

Not all water-based lubes are optimal for pH and osmolality, but Sliquid H2O passes the tests with flying colors. 

However, Sliquid H2O isn’t the only lube that’s safe for sex toys. And as a water-based lube, it’s not the slickest either. Read on for more specific recommendations and more types of sex lube to use with sex toys. 

The Best Sex Lubricant to Use with Sex Toys

Take a look at the table below to find the right type of sex lube to use with your sex toys. You’ll also find our top recommendations for sex lube brands. 

Remember, it’s never safe to use silicone sex lube with silicone sex toys (more on that later). But, you can use it with non-silicone toys! 

1. The Overall Best Lube for Sex Toys: Sliquid H2O

If you keep just one bottle of lube on your bedside table, make it Sliquid H2O. 

Sliquid H2O is our top choice for three reasons.

1. It’s slippery and long-lasting: This stuff is slick and comfy. It doesn’t feel sticky and gross like some other lubes. And, it lasts a while. Sure, you’ll still need to reapply after some time, but it goes further than other water-based lube. 

2. It’s body-safe: Sliquid H2O is possibly the best sex lube for internal use thanks to its optimal osmolality and pH levels. This means it’s easy on sensitive tissue inside the vagina and butt, and it won’t cause discomfort or infection, such as yeast infections.  

3. It’s compatible with all sex toys: Use this lube with any and all sex toys. No matter how kinky you get, Sliquid H2O will be there. 

Sliquid H2O may not be the ONLY lube you want to keep in your collection. After all, as a water-based lube, it’s not the slickest you can get. 

However, it is a staple that you should ALWAYS keep around. 

2. The Best Lube for Silicone Sex Toys: Any Water-based Lube

The #1 rule of lube and sex toys is: Never use silicone lube with silicone toys. 

Silicone lube can damage silicone material and make your toys susceptible to bacteria and mold infestation. 

This could pass an infection on to you in a very uncomfortable place. 

So, if you have a silicone toy (most toys are made of silicone), use a water-based lube, just to be safe. Any water-based lube will do.  

Sliquid H2O is our go-to. But you can also try:

• Fuck Water "Clear"

• Wet Water

• Pjur Aqua

If those don’t strike your fancy, there are loads more water-based lubes to browse here.

You can also use some hybrid lubes with silicone toys (hybrid lube is a blend of water and silicone). But not all of them are safe. Sliquid Silk is the best one. 

3. The Best Lube for Penis Toys: TENGA Hole lotion

When it comes to penis toys, you don’t have to worry about things like pH and osmolality. So, lube for penis toys can contain more ingredients and deliver more diverse sensations. 

We love the line of sex toy lube by TENGA, called Hole Lotion. These four sex lubes were designed specifically for use with penis sex toys, and each has a distinct feel. 

• TENGA Hole Lotion Solid: Extra-thick and gooey

• TENGA Hole Lotion Mild: Thick and creamy

• TENGA Hole Lotion Real: Smooth and silky

• TENGA Hole Lotion Light: Light and slick

TENGA lube is water-based and safe for toys. These Hole Lotion lubes are much slicker and silkier than standard water-based lube, making them perfect for use with stroker sex toys (the TENGA Spinner is a must-try!).

However, these lubes are not safe to use internally, so make sure you only use them for penis masturbation/foreplay and not for sex, vaginal masturbation, or anal play. 

4. Best Lube for Vagina/Clit Toys: Sliquid Sex Lubricants

No, Sliquid did not pay us anything for this post! 

We’re recommending so many Sliquid lubes because they are among the few sex lubes to pass safety tests for pH and osmolality. 

This means they are the safest lubes to use inside the vagina. 

Sliquid H2O (water-based) and Sliquid Silk (hybrid) are highly recommended for vagina-friendly ingredients and purity. Both are safe to use with all sex toys.  

Sliquid H2O is best for wands, vibrators, clit suckers, and other toys that are slightly more difficult to clean. Water-based lube washes off easily.

Sliquid Silk is slicker, so it’s better for dildos, g-spot vibrators, rabbit vibrators, and toys for inserting and thrusting.  

5. Best Lube for Anal Toys: Boy Butter 

Anal toys may require a thicker and slicker lube because butts don’t self-lubricate. Boy Butter is the better choice. This natural, coconut-oil-based lube has the consistency of butter, and it lasts and lasts. 

Boy Butter is safe to use with all sex toys, and unlike other oil-based lubes, it doesn’t stain fabrics. 

Slather this on your butt plugs and prostate massagers to enjoy anal stimulation without the need to reapply every few minutes. 

Just keep in mind that Boy Butter (and other oil-based lubes) is not safe to use with condoms. 

If you’re looking for something easier to clean, try a thicker water-based lube like Sliquid Sassy. 

6. Best Lube to Use with Toys and Condoms: SPUNK Hybrid 

Sex toys, lube, and condoms often meet in the same situations. 

Sometimes you use sex toys vaginally before sex with a condom. Or maybe you put a condom on your sex toy (such as an anal vibrator) to make cleanup easier. 

If condoms are involved, use a hybrid lube like SPUNK Hybrid or Sliquid Silk. 

Hybrid lube is extra-slick and condom-safe. 

If you’re using a condom on a sex toy, you can use a slicker lube and still benefit from easy cleaning. 

If you’re having sex after using a toy, hybrid lube will keep you slippery and read for penetration. 

7. Best Lube for Foreplay: Tingling and Flavored Lube

During foreplay, you can experiment with some extra-special lubricants that bring new sensations to the bedroom. 

We recommend tingling/warming and flavored lubes. 

Warming lube like Sliquid Sizzle adds heat to every touch. It’s sex-toy-safe and body-safe, so you can use it with all of your toys. It’s especially fun to use with clit vibrators and penis strokers. 

Flavored lube is a tasty addition to oral sex and other external play. It’s not meant to be used internally or for sex. 

There are tons of flavors to choose from, including chocolate chip cookie, pina colada, and passion fruit. Try one in combination with a penis vibrator to serve a delectable BJ. 

What You Need to Know About Silicone Lube and Sex Toys 

There’s one very important rule you need to know about sex lube and sex toys: 

You can’t use silicone lube with silicone sex toys. 

Silicone lube degrades silicone material very quickly. Even mild exposure can damage your sex toy. 

Degraded sex toys are not safe to use because they can become porous. This creates microscopic little holes that attract bacteria and mold. 

These intruders can easily pass to you, causing infections that require a trip to the doctor.  

This is important because MANY sex toys are made of silicone. So, when using sex toys, it’s best to stay away from silicone lube and stick with water-based sex lube. 

However, if your sex toy is made from a different material, such as metal or glass, you can use as much silicone sex lube as you want. We recommend Gun Oil. 

Other Types of Sex Lube for Sex Toys

Now you know that silicone sex lube is off the table. So, what sex lube can you choose?Here’s a quick breakdown of the types of sex lube you can use with sex toys.  

• Water-based sex lube: The most versatile of all sex lube, water-based lube is 100% compatible with all toys, bodies, condoms, and more. It’s not the slickest lube, but it’s the best lube to use with sex toys. 

• Hybrid sex lube: This sex lube is a blend of water and silicone. It’s slicker than standard water-based lube but easier to clean than silicone lube. Not all hybrid lube is safe for silicone toys, so check the label. We recommend Sliquid Silk. It’s safe to use with all sex toys. 

• Oil-based sex lube: Oil-based sex lube is extra-slick and safe to use with silicone toys. However, it might cause issues with toys made from TPE or vinyl. And, it’s not safe to use with latex condoms. Oil-based lube is ideal to use with anal toys because of its long-lasting slickness. 

• Warming/tingling lube: These sensational lubes feel amazing on sex toys because they recreate the heat of a real partner. They make penis strokers feel like the real deal and clit stimulation extra arousing. However, test the waters by using a small amount to start. These lubes can be uncomfortable for some. Also, double-check if your chosen lube is safe for internal use. 

Where to Buy Sex Lube for Sex Toys

It’s SUPER important to buy sex toys from a reliable retailer like Condomania. We’ve been selling sex lube for over 30 years, and we understand how to select the best lubricants and store them safely. 

This is not true of mass retailers, random online sellers, and big marketplaces. 

The quality of your sex lube is a big deal for your health and the longevity of your sex toy (those things can be pricey!). Sex lube is going to slip and slide all over your most sensitive parts—including the inside of your body. Don’t risk getting an off-brand or outdated product.  

Buy your lube online from Condomania. Our sex lubes are body-safe and free from harmful ingredients. All of our sex lubes are made by trusted brands and medically tested for safety. 

Plus, when you shop sex lube at Condomania, you get:

• FREE shipping on orders over $49

• FREE discreet packaging and billing 

• FREE lube and other surprises with your order

• The best deals on lube, sex toys, and condoms online

When using sex toys, lube is 100% essential. Start with a bottle of Sliquid H2O. It’s the best sex lube for sex toys, no matter the toy. 

Then, browse our massive sex lube selection to find the perfect lube for every occasion. 

Need a toy to accompany your lube? We’ve got you covered too. 

Check out our top recommendations for penis toys and vagina toys. 

Or browse our entire collection of medically-tested sex toys here.