All about Boy Butter Lubricant
Boy Butter is one of the most popular brands of sex lube today. Its creamy consistency is ultra-silky on the skin, and its long-lasting slickness promotes safer and more pleasurable sex.
Below, we've answered all of your questions about Boy Butter.
Short on time? Here's a quick rundown of what makes Boy Butter special:
- Boy Butter is a sex lube brand that produces oil-based and water-based lubricants
- Boy Butter is non-toxic and safe for all types of sex, masturbation, and sex toys
- Boy Butter is super thick and creamy, unlike other watery, gel-based lubes
- Boy Butter lasts a VERY long time — one application is all it takes
- Boy Butter is one of the only water-soluble and non-staining oil-based lubes
- Boy Butter Original and Boy Butter Desensitizing are NOT safe with latex condoms — but Boy Butter H2O IS condom-safe
- Boy Butter has been a best-selling sex lube for nearly 20 years
- The best place to buy Boy Butter online is Condomania
Boy Butter H2O — Best Seller Right Now
Boy Butter H2O gives you the famous buttery texture in a water-based formula — safe with latex condoms, polyisoprene condoms, and all sex toys. The best of both worlds.
Boy Butter "H2O" Water-Based Lubricant
$10.99
$11.99
Boy, this butter sure is sexy! Boy Butter H2O from Boy Butter Products is a gentle concoction of natural ingredients, including shea butter, vitamin E, and aloe, that provides lubrication to the most intimate places without irritation. Longer-lasting than the… Read More
Everything You Want to Know about Boy Butter
What kind of lube is Boy Butter?
Boy Butter Original Formula is an oil-based sex lubricant made with coconut oil — 100% plant-based (vegan-friendly). Edible, non-toxic, safe for anal, vaginal, and oral sex and masturbation.
Important: oil-based lubricants including Boy Butter Original are NOT safe with latex condoms. Boy Butter also makes water-based formulas that are condom-safe.
How many Boy Butter products are there?
Boy Butter makes four oil-based and water-based sex lubes:
- Boy Butter Original (Oil-based)
- Boy Butter H2O (Water-based) — currently in stock
- Boy Butter Clear (Water-based)
- Boy Butter Desensitizing (Oil-based)
All Boy Butter products have the consistency of thick, gooey butter thanks to their unique homogenized formula. Find all Boy Butter products at Condomania.
What is Boy Butter used for?
Due to its suggestive name and sublime slickness, Boy Butter is often associated with anal sex. But it's used for much more — vaginal sex, oral sex, masturbation, and with sex toys. It's on our list of the best lube for masturbation.
Boy Butter is especially popular with sex toys — oil-based lube is safe with all toy materials (unlike silicone lube). The H2O formula is safe with vibrators and dildos.

What is so special about Boy Butter?
- Thick and creamy: You can literally scoop Boy Butter up with your fingers like Crisco. Its thick and ultra-silky consistency makes you want to slather it everywhere.
- Long-lasting fun: Apply Boy Butter once to your naughty bits or sex toy, and you're good to go. Boy Butter is practically guaranteed to last longer than you do.
- Vegan-friendly: Boy Butter Original is made with coconut oil and is 100% plant-based.
- Non-toxic and edible: Perfect for oral sex.
- Easy to clean: Boy Butter is one of the only oil-based lubes that is non-staining and water-soluble. It easily rinses off skin and surfaces with water.
Is Boy Butter safe to use with condoms?
Boy Butter Original and Boy Butter Desensitizing are NOT safe with latex condoms — oil breaks down latex.
However, they are safe with non-latex condoms like LifeStyles Skyn, Durex Avanti, and Unique.
If you use latex condoms, use Boy Butter H2O — water-based and 100% latex-safe.
Boy Butter "H2O" Water-Based Lubricant
$10.99
$11.99
Boy, this butter sure is sexy! Boy Butter H2O from Boy Butter Products is a gentle concoction of natural ingredients, including shea butter, vitamin E, and aloe, that provides lubrication to the most intimate places without irritation. Longer-lasting than the… Read More
Is Boy Butter edible?
Yes! Boy Butter is 100% non-toxic and plant-based — you can consume it safely. Though we don't recommend it for your morning bagel.
| Fun Fact: Boy Butter is a pop culture icon. It has appeared in The Daily Show, SNL, The L-Word, E's Talk Soup, HBO's Girls, and more! |
How long has Boy Butter been around?
Boy Butter debuted in 2003 at the International Mr. Leather competition in Chicago — sold out in one weekend. Within a year it was being sold in shops across three continents. Now it's one of the most popular lube brands globally.

What's the best Boy Butter for new users?
If you use latex condoms or silicone toys, start with Boy Butter H2O — water-based, condom-safe, toy-safe, and still has that signature buttery feel.
If you don't use latex condoms, Boy Butter Original is the classic — the most popular formula with the most luscious coconut oil consistency.
Are Boy Butter reviews good?
Yes, Boy Butter has received consistently positive reviews for 20+ years — a perfect 5-star rating on Condomania.com and Boy Butter's own website.
"I'm not being dramatic; Boy Butter has completely changed our sex and I cannot say enough good things about this product."
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"Very nice consistency, thick and slick so that I don't have to reapply to toys mid-use. Highly recommend."
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"It absolutely met and even surpassed my expectations — thick and slippery, stayed exactly where we wanted it, and when we were finished it was a cinch to get off ourselves and our linens."

Where is the best place to buy Boy Butter lube?
The best place to buy Boy Butter is Condomania — America's first condom shop (est. 1991 in New York City). We've been partners with Boy Butter for years, which means exclusive Boy Butter products and discounts you can't get anywhere else.
You also get discreet packaging and billing, the best selection of condoms and sex toys online, and FREE condoms with every order.
Browse all Boy Butter lubes at Condomania here.
Want to learn more about lube? Check out our Ultimate Guide to Sexual Lubricant.


