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Thinking of getting a sexy gift for a man in your life (or for yourself)?
Male sex toys make amazing gifts for guys. Not only do they boost his solo pleasure by about 1000%, but they can also improve his sex life and bring him closer to his partner.
But where do you start when shopping for male sex toys?
What is he into? How do you know if he’ll like it? And where can you find quality sex toys that won’t fizzle and bust before he does?
Condomania is here to answer all of those questions and recommend the best sex toys for men. The man in your life will be FLOORED by these toys—guaranteed.
In this complete male sex toy gift guide, we’ll give you the long and short on:
👉 The best male sex toy gifts
👉 Types of male sex toys to choose from
👉 How to find out which toys he might like
👉 How to shop for sex toys for guys
👉 How to give a guy a sex toy (without being awkward or cringe)
Let’s get to it!
Let’s get straight to the good stuff. The following products are the best sex toy gifts for guys based on online reviews and sales.
At Condomania, we’ve been selling sex toys for over 30 years, so we know what makes a great gift.
These top-selling sex toys for men are made by top brands and medically tested for safety. He won’t need a gift receipt for these sex toys!
If you’re new to sex toys or curious about how these gadgets actually work, skip to the next section.
The Best Male Masturbators and Strokers
👉 TENGA Spinner: Over 25 MILLION sold! This legendary stroker combines pumping and spiral motions
TENGA Spinner Penis Stroker | 'Shell' 03
$25.99
$29.99
Tenga Spinner "Shell" Reuseable Spiral-Motion Male Masturbator If you're looking for your new best friend, look no further than the Tenga Spinner "Shell" Male Masturbator. The inside of the Shell Masturbator is uniquely fitted with tanned tiles and firm edges for a unique masturbation experience. Amazing… Read More
👉 Fleshlight Quickshot: A budget open-ended stroker from the world-famous Fleshlight brand
Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage Open-Ended Masturbating Sleeve
$39.99
$44.99
Introducing the Quickshot Vantage: Your Clear Path to Pleasure! Watch yourself glide straight through the Clear Vantage during couples' play, experiencing a whole new level of excitement! Easy Peasy Clean-Up: A Breeze for Busy Condomaniacs! Thanks to the open-ended sleeve,… Read More
👉 TENGA Flip Orb: Easy-to-clean stroker that delivers undulating waves of pleasure
Tenga Flip Orb Sunset Orange
$74.99
$82.00
Introducing the Tenga Flip Orb Sunset Orange Get ready to dive into a world of sensational pleasure with the Tenga Flip Orb Sunset Orange! This innovative masturbator combines firm orbs and supple elastomer to create an unmatched experience. Our Condomaniacs… Read More
👉 Lovense Solace Pro: Bluetooth and VR-ready automatic masturbator for hands-free pleasure
Lovense Solace Pro Vibrating Stroker
$179.99
$199.99
Meet the Future of Pleasure The Lovense Solace Pro Vibrating Stroker isn’t just a toy—it’s a technological marvel that takes your solo sessions to an entirely new level. Designed for Condomaniacs who want it all, this next-gen stroker syncs seamlessly… Read More
👉 Satisfyer Sweet Seal : An affordable prostate massager and butt plug combo with 12 vibration settings
Satisfyer Sweet Seal - Black
$70.00
Discover the Fun of the Satisfyer Sweet Seal - Black Ready for an unforgettable adventure? Meet the Satisfyer Sweet Seal - Black! This clever toy is designed with an oval-flattened shape and a rounded tip, making it perfect for anal… Read More
👉Aneros Progasm Prostate Massager: Ergonomic prostate and perineum massager delivers dual stimulation
Aneros Progasm Prostate Massager - White
$59.95
$69.99
Aneros Progasm The Aneros Progasm is one of the largest members of the Aneros family to date. It features a newly designed round perineum tab and boasts a Kundalini “K-Tab.” The “K-Tab” adds sensations up and down your back that… Read More
👉 B-vibe Anal Training Set : The perfect gift for a butt beginner! 3 butt plugs and all the gear you need for safe anal fun!
B-Vibe Anal Training Set of 3 Butt Plugs - Black
$144.99
$160.99
Ranging from small to large, the b-Vibe anal training kit comes with three basic silicone butt plugs that are designed for all stages of anal training. The silicone butt plugs are made from 100% body-safe silicone. The narrowly rounded tips… Read More
👉Satisfyer Backdoor Lover Anal Vibrator: Ideal vibrator for beginners and experts on backdoor pleasure.
Satisfyer Backdoor Lover Anal Vibrator - Red
$42.99
$49.99
The rounded shape and powerful vibrations make the silicone Satisfyer Backdoor Lover the ideal anal vibrator for beginners. The wide base ensures you can explore your pleasure safely. Sensual prostate massage with the Satisfyer Backdoor Lover Enjoy seductive vibrations with the Satisfyer Backdoor Lover!… Read More
👉 Aneros Helix Syn Trident Prostate Stimulator: The most popular hands-free male G-spot massager.
Aneros Helix Syn Trident Prostate Stimulator
$69.99
$79.99
Aneros Helix Syn Trident Prostate Stimulator Featuring the perfect combination of responsiveness and focused stimulation paired with the comfort and elegance of silicone, the Helix Syn™ went on to become the most popular hands-free male G spot massager in the… Read More
The Best Cock Rings
👉 Atomic Jock Cock Ring: No-nonsense flexible cock ring for harder erections and bigger finishes
Atomic Jock 'Do-Nut-2' Large Cock Ring
$5.99
Atomic Jock "Do-Nut-2" Cock Ring The Oxballs Atomic Jock Cock Ring is a super-stretchy, non-rolling cock ring option for those looking for a simple solution that stays in place throughout their entire lovemaking session. You can wear this cock ring all day… Read More
👉 Satisfyer Power Ring: The best first-time vibrating cock ring. Affordable and powerful vibes!
Satisfyer "Power Ring" Rechargeable Vibrating Cock Ring
$32.99
$38.99
Power Up Your Pleasure Journey! Say hello to the superhero of stamina – the Satisfyer Power Ring! This vibrating wonder isn't just a cock ring; it's your ticket to an electrifying experience that leaves both you and your partner screaming… Read More
👉 Stay Hard Silicone Double Loop Adjustable Cock Ring: Affordable, adjustable, smooth and fits around the penis and scrotum.
Stay Hard Silicone Double Loop Adjustable Black Cock Ring
$8.99
$9.99
Stay Hard Silicone Double Loop Adjustable Cock Ring The Stay Hard Silicone Double Loop Cock Ring is soft, smooth, and fully adjustable. It features a lasso-style locking slide. Push the button on the slide to pull your ring open. Fit… Read More
👉 Lovense Diamo: Bluetooth-ready, hands-free vibrating cock ring is great for masturbation and sex
Lovense Diamo Bluetooth-Controlled Vibrating Cock Ring
$114.00
$119.00
Introducing the Lovense Diamo Vibrating Cock Ring Get ready to revolutionize your intimate moments with the Lovense Diamo Vibrating Cock Ring! 💍 Designed for comfort and pleasure, this Bluetooth-controlled marvel is about to take your bedroom adventures to new heights.… Read More
👉We-Vibe Sync 2 Couples Vibrator with App: Waterproof, easy to clean, and so fun!
We-Vibe Sync 2 Couples Vibrator with App - Purple
$159.00
Meet the We-Vibe Sync 2: The Couples Vibrator That Plays Well with Two Ready to shake things up? The We-Vibe Sync 2 is here to elevate your intimate moments, whether you're lounging on the couch or tangling up the sheets.… Read More
👉 Zero Tolerance Girth Enhancer: Grants greater girth for him and tantalizing vibrations for both!
Zero Tolerance Vibrating Girth Enhancer for Men
$59.99
$65.99
Zero Tolerance Vibrating Girth Enhancer: Go Big or Go Home Looking to bring a little extra buzz to the bedroom? The Zero Tolerance Vibrating Girth Enhancer delivers exactly what it promises—bigger, buzzier, and better-than-ever pleasure. Designed for anyone with a… Read More
👉 Satisfyer Endless Love Couples Vibrator : This wearable vibrator pleasures both partners during sex and foreplay
Satisfyer 'Endless Love' Couples Multi-Use Vibrator
$49.99
$54.95
"Endless Love" Couples Vibrator While they were busy designing their brand new Endless Love vibe, the geniuses at Satisfyer were also hard at work dreaming up fourteen different ways it could take you (and a partner) to orgasm heaven. Fourteen… Read More
👉 Pillow by Dame Wedge Pillow: Unlock new positions and better BJs with this simple sex pillow
Pillo by Dame Firm Wedge Sex Pillow with Removable Cover
$95.00
Sex Pillow Wedge with Removable Cover Pillo is a soft-yet-firm wedge that supports one in a variety of sex positions, allowing you to find all the perfect angles. This stylish pillow easily blends into the bedroom or office by day and helps you reach… Read More
👉 Penis Extenders: Great for role-playing, pegging, and adding oomph to the bedroom
👉 Sensational Sex Lube: Try some tingling, warming, numbing, or cooling lube for a new twist
👉 Kinky Condoms: Flavored condoms, glow-in-the-dark, textured—the fun never ends!
Types of Male Sex Toys: What’s the Difference?
There are a bunch of types of male sex toys. That’s a good thing because men enjoy a wide range of different sensations. Which does your man prefer? What are his fantasies?
Show you care by doing a bit of research and buying him a toy that hits his spot just right. Luckily, that research won’t take long! Learn all you need to know about the types of male sex toys below.
Masturbators and Strokers
Think of these as much-improved alternatives to a hand and a tube sock.
Strokers are soft, usually silicone-based sleeves that slide over his shaft. He uses his hand to pump it up and down to his heart’s content. They typically contain textures to increase sensation.
High-tech versions include advanced features like vibration, warming sensations, suction, and hands-free remote controls.
Some toys are even Bluetooth-ready so a partner can control his pleasure from anywhere in the world!
Penis Vibrators
Penis vibrators are toys that stimulate the penis with vibrating goodness. Some of these toys are strokers while others are wand-like massagers or rings.
For example, the SVAKOM Robin is a vibrating stroker and the Lovense Gush is a glans massager. They’re all great vibrators and each delivers a unique sensation.
They work pretty intuitively. He sticks his peen in the appropriate spot and strokes.
Cock Rings
No man should be without a cock ring! They’re durable and easy-to-use sex toys that improve masturbation and sex.
Cock rings restrict blood flow out of the penis to make erections harder. They also make orgasms much more intense and can give his “shot” more distance.
While cock rings are typically used during sex with a partner, they can also be used to improve masturbation. Some cock rings are designed to boost his pleasure further with perineum vibrations.
There are loads of cock ring styles to choose from, including flexible, hard, adjustable vibrating, and more. They’re also some of the most affordable sex toys for men.
Anal Toys
Butt play isn’t about gay or straight. All guys have sensitive nerve endings in the back door that drive them wild. Butt plugs, anal beads, and anal vibrators stimulate these areas to add new heights of pleasure to sex and masturbation.
The most notorious anal erogenous zone for men is the p-spot, or prostate.
Prostate orgasms are the strongest orgasms that a man can experience. A gift of a prostate massager is one he will never forget.
High-tech massagers are designed to make prostate stimulation much easier, especially for guys who are older or not super flexible. Some come with remote controls for hands-free stimulation .
Sex Furniture
Guys use a lot of muscles when aroused, so changing up the angle of his hips, legs, and chest can produce a wide variety of sensations.
Not to mention, the angle of his partner affects his pleasure too. A simple sex pillow can add a lot of variety to his sex life. A sex swing or bondage board? Now we’re talking!
Sex furniture isn’t just for fun, either. It can also make sex easier and more pleasurable for older men who are less flexible or those with limited mobility. A set of sex wedges can revitalize his sex life without pills or pumps.
How To Choose a Male Sex Toy for Your Guy
Now that you’re a male sex toy expert, it’s time to choose the right gift. But how do you know what toy he’s into and what will gather dust in his closet until his mom accidentally finds it?
Answer the following three questions—they’ll guide you to the perfect sex toy gift.
How much do you know about his likes and dislikes in the bedroom?
You might be open to buying someone a sex toy without really knowing what they’re into. If that’s the case, go for the sure-fire winner: a masturbator or stroker. These sex toys for men are universally loved because they make masturbation better. And what guy doesn’t want that?
If you know what he likes in the bedroom or the type of stimulation that really gets him going, get him a sex toy that pushes his boundaries in that direction. For example, if he likes bondage, you might want to get him some BDSM rope. If he likes a finger in his tush, you could get him a butt plug.
Are you having sex together?
If you’re having sex with the guy you’re buying a gift for, choose a gift that he can use alone and during sex.
For example, he can use a couples vibrator or a vibrating cock ring to boost his solo orgasms and add new dimensions to foreplay. One partner can wear the toy while the other holds the controls… 😈.
Just remember that when you’re buying him a sex toy, the focus should be on his pleasure first. Check out our complete guide to gifting sex toys for more tips on how to give a sex toy as a gift.
What’s your Budget?
Quality male sex toys are not cheap.
If you’re trying to spend less than $25, you’re going to have to choose something low-tech. That’s by no means a bad thing! You can get a quality cock ring or masturbator at that price point.
If you don’t have a lot of cash and try to buy something fancy, you might end up with a low-quality gimmick product that’s unsafe or just plain boring. Luckily, you won’t find any products like that at Condomania!
But the point remains: good sex toys are expensive for a reason. Safe and comfortable materials are critical—as is durability. You want his toy to outlast the holiday season!
How to Shop for Sex Toys: Where to Start So He Can Finish?
Shopping for sex toys is not nearly as pleasurable as using them. It’s difficult to find sex toys you can trust.
While the internet makes things easier, there are tons of cheap sites selling knock-off pocket pussies and dildos that were probably unearthed from a bunker in the former Soviet bloc.
If you want to shop for sex toys the right way (and avoid antique communist spyware infiltrating your orifices), follow these steps:
Don’t shop at brick-and-mortar sex stores: Those sex stores by the highway and gag-gift stores at the mall are not ideal places to buy sex toys. Many of those toys are joke gifts and not safe for sex and masturbation. Others are overpriced and cheaply made.
Shop online from established brands: Online, you can shop for thousands of sex toys made by reputable brands. Make sure the online shop you choose is established and well-reviewed. Sleazy middleman sites pop up all the time to turn a quick buck. Condomania has been trusted for over 30 years—longer than anyone else.
Look for medically-tested toys and products with FDA approval: Does your sex toy shop care about your health? Most don’t! Condomania only sells medically-tested sex toys and condoms and lube approved for safe sex by the FDA.
Check for discreet packaging options: You don’t want him to see his gift when it ships to your door. You also might not want your neighbors or your mail carrier to see a package arrive in the shape of a big black dildo. Reliable online shops (like Condomania) ship your goods in discreet packaging—your sex life is your business.
How to Give a Guy a Sex Toy (the Non-Awkward Way)
Giving a sex toy as a gift can be intimidating even if you’re in a relationship.
If you’re comfortable handing him a shiny new butt plug set, then more power to you! But he might not be comfortable receiving it depending on the time, place, and atmosphere.
So, how do you give a sex toy to a guy the right way?
Here are a few suggestions:
Give some warning: Receiving an unexpected sex toy can be a bit of a shock. Try telling him earlier in the day or week that you want to give him a sexy gift later. This will get him excited and make the gifting even better.
Read the room: You might have your heart set on giving him his anal beads over dinner, but if there’s a party of nuns at the next table, the timing might not be right. Use your gut. If you’re both feeling loose and comfy, give the gift. If the situation is tense or not very sexy, hold off.
Do it in private: It’s best to give your gift in private. Most guys don’t open up about their sex lives to very many people. Just because he talks about it with you doesn’t mean he wants others to see him unwrapping a penis stroker.
Ask him to open it later: If you’re feeling shy (or he is), give him the gift to open later and ask him to message you when he does. This takes some of the pressure off and makes communicating easier.
Make it part of foreplay: There’s no better time to give a gift than during foreplay. The mood is already set, and he can try his sex toy right away with your help.
Find Your Male Sex Toy Gift at Condomania
Congrats! You’re officially a male sex toy gift-giving guru. Now, you’re ready to pick up a sex toy for the lucky guy in your life.
Get your shopping started by browsing the MASSIVE selection of male sex toys at Condomania.
100% of our toys are hand-selected by our experts and medically tested for safety. Plus, when you shop for sex toys at Condmania, you get:
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There’s a reason we’ve been America’s favorite condom and sex toy shop for over 30 years! Visit Condomania now for sex toys, lube, condoms, and a whole lot more.
FAQs
Are male sex toys actually a good gift?
Hell yes. Male sex toys aren’t gag gifts anymore—they’re confidence boosters, pleasure upgrades, and sometimes relationship savers. A good toy can improve solo play and partnered sex, which is a win for everyone involved.
What if I don’t know what kind of sex toys he likes?
When in doubt, go classic. Masturbators, strokers, and cock rings are crowd-pleasers because they don’t require a learning curve or a deep kink résumé. They’re like the little black dress of male pleasure—always a good idea. And if you really don't know get a gift card!
Are male sex toys safe?
They are—if you buy from a trusted retailer like condomania.com - Look for toys made from body-safe silicone, stainless steel, or medical-grade materials. Skip sketchy sites selling bargain-bin toys that look like they came from a cursed warehouse.
What’s the best first sex toy for a guy?
A stroker or vibrating cock ring is usually the best starting point. They’re easy to use, wildly effective, and don’t require flexibility, bravery, or a prostate roadmap. Lube is a great addition!
Is butt stuff really for all men?
Yep. Prostate pleasure isn’t about sexual orientation—it’s about anatomy. Every guy has a prostate, and stimulating it can lead to next-level orgasms. Start small, use lube, and trust the process.