The male orgasm is pretty straightforward. Just rub and tug a few times, and Old Faithful will deliver that good ol' fashioned feeling. Nothing more to it.
Or is there?
Male bodies are capable of more than one type of orgasm. The most common type of O for guys is just a hint of the pleasure you can get from stimulating the hidden male G-spot.
A normal male orgasm is like vodka and soda — makes you feel good, but nothing special. A G-spot orgasm is like an 18-year scotch served neat. It knocks your socks off in the best of ways.
What is the Male G-Spot?
The real name of the male G-spot is the P-spot. Stimulating the P-spot triggers a prostate orgasm.
You can achieve a male G-spot orgasm by massaging your prostate (usually with a Prostate Massager), bringing about multiple and/or continuous orgasms, often without ejaculation.
Where is the Male G-Spot Located?
The P-spot is located about 2-3 inches inside your butt on the front wall of your anus — a walnut-shaped bump that feels good when rubbed. Your prostate gland is responsible for pushing semen out when you ejaculate and about 30% of your semen load.
Isn't Prostate Cancer Serious?
Prostate massage doesn't contribute to prostate problems — it can actually make you healthier. Prostate massage is often used medically to reduce enlarged prostates and relieve other issues. More on the health benefits here.
What Does a Prostate Orgasm Feel Like?
Like a regular orgasm except 10x stronger and way longer-lasting. Unlike regular orgasms that culminate in ejaculation, P-spot orgasms are whole-body experiences. They may not result in ejaculation, enabling multiple orgasms in a multi-orgasmic state.
Have Male G-Spot Orgasms Easily with These Toys
These toys are designed to hit your P-spot right on target. Much more comfortable and sanitary than fingers alone. Remember to apply lots of anal lube!
Aneros Progasm — A great non-vibrating starter prostate massager. Hands-free, your body's natural movement does the work.
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Lovense Edge 2 — App-controlled vibrating prostate massager. Turn it on and let it do all the work. Extra-soft silicone, comfortable even for beginners.
How Do You Achieve a P-Spot Orgasm?
Prepare
👉 Use the bathroom first. If you've gone recently and don't feel the need to go, you'll be fine. 👉 Wash hands and toy well with a sex toy cleaner. 👉 Put a towel down just in case. 👉 Use plenty of anal lube — your butt doesn't self-lubricate.
For lube, we recommend Boy Butter H2O (water-based, condom-safe) or Pjur Backdoor Silicone Anal Glide:
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Knock at the Backdoor First
Don't rush. Start by massaging the anal opening without going inside. This relaxes the muscles so you can enter without any trouble from the bouncer.
Lie back, knees bent. Stimulate your penis to get hard. Slide your finger or toy slowly around the anal entrance in circular motions. Anal muscles will tense at first — that's normal. After a few minutes they'll relax, then start pressing inside slowly.
Pro Tip: Use a finger condom when using fingers to protect against bacteria and add extra lube.
Find the P-Spot
Insert your finger or toy about 2-3 inches in and gently rub the front wall of your anus. Search for a walnut-sized lump — that's your P-spot. Apply gentle pressure and make a "come here" motion. Prostate massagers are curved specifically to find this spot automatically.
Post-P-Spot Care
Wash hands, butt, and toy immediately. Toss linens in the wash. Then kick back and enjoy the calming effect of a powerful P-spot orgasm!
I Couldn't Achieve a P-Spot Orgasm 😭
That's totally normal. It might take three, five, or twenty attempts. Practice makes perfect — incorporate 10-15 minutes of anal play whenever you normally masturbate. Your butt will get used to it and it'll become easier.
What's Next?
Explore more at our guide to anal sex, browse anal toys, or level up your solo game with more sex toys for men. We cover all our favorites in the ultimate male sex toy guide.